what a cuntOriginally posted by sillysod
In my case I was spending too much time working (making money to pay my mortgage and her school) so she got a boyfriend on the side. Paid her tuition and books 2 weeks before I found out.
She also went after me as a dependent because she "needed" me to continue paying for her school that was taking 2x as long as it took me to graduate. It was pretty awesome.
IMO get a lawyer and just get it done. The sooner it's over the sooner you can get on with it. You can always make more money but you can't get back all the time you will waste trying to avoid the inevitable.