Always feeling Depressed... WTF!?

[TrU3pLaYa786]

I'm a regular 15 year old boy. I'm on my 2 month vacation.. so i dont get out alot. (yea weird..) i got alot of school buds.. just not neighbor friends.. w.e.

I've noticed, i dont talk much and feel depressed most of the time..

No I don't do drugs..

what should i do? this si getting crazy. i dont feel like talkjing sometimes..

[jdmakkord]

Mastrubate, it heals everything.

[vtec4life]

hmmm...atleast u realize that your depressed which is a start...maybe get an appointment with ur family doctor..could just be that 15 year old puberty thing but if ur worried about it i would definitely talk to someone, dont jump!!! its not worth itttt

[finboy]

i hear suicide is trendy now a days. :thumbsup:

[Rockski]

oh totally man
all the cool kids are killing themselves

[three.eighteen.]

youre 15, of course you feel fucked up...

[szw]

Maybe stop calling yourself TrU3pLaYa786 and see if that helps.

[turbotrip]

http://www.drugs.indiana.edu/graphics/photographs/govt/crack-pipe.gif

with every hit u get one step closer to heaven
:drool:

[GTS Jeff]

Don't listen to the guys joking about suicide, they don't mean it. I know it sounds incredibly ghey, but you should start by finding someone to talk to. Find a counsellor, maybe an anonymous phone one if you feel more comfortable with that.

[turbotrip]

For real though, Kids Help Phone would be a good idea

1-800-668-6868

[AllGoNoShow]

Find something to do, hobby wise, somethign that interests u and makes you forget other things around you while you are doing whatever it is. Helps give yourself some personal gratification. Then go find some freinds that may have the same interests and hang out with them.

Some people get confused in life and think they need everyone as a freind. Personally I'd rather have a couple really good, honest, smart freinds, then a shitload of dumb ones.

[MudCrawler]

You could always smoke pot. :D
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[eur0]

start playin sports, it forces you to get outside and be social whether you like it or not ... and its good for you

[JAYMEZ]

If your feeling depressed , you could try and go to the gym. Working out always makes me feel better.. As for depression , its a normal stage man ... just dont do anything stupid!

[AllGoNoShow]

Originally posted by MudCrawler
You could always smoke pot. :D
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Dude shut the fuck up. Try and help the kid out instead of making him feel like shit, its people like you that don't help these kids and just drive them further into trouble.

If you don't want to help him out, get the fuck out of the thread.

[Palmiros]

a bit overweight?

[natejj]

Start collecting Yu Gi Oh Cards. this can cheer anyone up.

[heavyD]

Go see a doctor and descirbe how you feel & your situation. If he feels it's severe he may perscribe you something like Paxil or he may give you helpful brochures or direct you to a seminar, etc. Depression or anxiety are pretty common these days and there are many different treatments. You just have to find out what works for you but don't just sit there & let it take over your life.

[andyg16]

go play some sports, and dont do drugss:)

[LEB MAFIA]

GET A GIRLFRIEND :bigpimp:

[infected]

Find a small project or something to work on, you'll end up drawing yourself into it so much that you won't even have time to think about other stuff.

[CrvenaZvezda]

^^^^^I agree, your 15 years old man that means almost time to get your license get yourself a car and start working on it, and some of you dumb fucks talkin about suicide and drugs shut the fuck up and go kill yourselves.^^^^^

[LEB MAFIA]

Originally posted by CrvenaZvezda
^^^^^I agree, your 15 years old man that means almost time to get your license get yourself a car and start working on it, and some of you dumb fucks talkin about suicide and drugs shut the fuck up and go kill yourselves.^^^^^

Listen to this guy he is smart
(except for the other part where he insists the guys to go kill them selves cuz he is just as bad :eek: LOL.

[AzN'SKillZ]

Originally posted by natejj
Start collecting Yu Gi Oh Cards. this can cheer anyone up.

Back in the day wen i ust to play those cards it always put a smile on a face.

ur just lacking some close friends that u could hang out wit and have a grate time or girlfriend. but dont think that having alota friends will help u.

PLZ DONT GO EMO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[civic_stylez]

are you getting enough sleep.. most kids on summer break sleep like 5 hours a night.. that can wear you down and make you feel like shit.. so get enough sleep or get an ID go to the titty bar and gander at some nice juggs.:poosie:

[MudCrawler]

Originally posted by AllGoNoShow



Dude shut the fuck up. Try and help the kid out instead of making him feel like shit, its people like you that don't help these kids and just drive them further into trouble.

If you don't want to help him out, get the fuck out of the thread.

It was just a joke. Calm down.

[Neil4Speed]

Originally posted by AllGoNoShow
Find something to do, hobby wise, somethign that interests u and makes you forget other things around you while you are doing whatever it is. Helps give yourself some personal gratification. Then go find some freinds that may have the same interests and hang out with them.

Some people get confused in life and think they need everyone as a freind. Personally I'd rather have a couple really good, honest, smart freinds, then a shitload of dumb ones.

This is the best advice you can get.

Try to find some sort of hobby or project (like another member said), that you can focus on. Maybe a go-cart?

[finboy]

Originally posted by CrvenaZvezda
^^^^^I agree, your 15 years old man that means almost time to get your license get yourself a car and start working on it, and some of you dumb fucks talkin about suicide and drugs shut the fuck up and go kill yourselves.^^^^^

OES NOES TEH NOOB IS ANGRY :nut: :nut: :nut: :rofl:

[/////AMG]

Go to the 'Ask Leo' and read some of the thread, they will cheer anyone up!

[CrvenaZvezda]

Originally posted by LEB MAFIA


Listen to this guy he is smart
(except for the other part where he insists the guys to go kill them selves cuz he is just as bad :eek: LOL.

HaHaHa, man Im just sayin some of the EMO kids and Im not sayin this kid is Emo, but some of those Emo's would take some of these guys seriously and actually go kill themselves lol!!!

[finboy]

this should cheer you up...

http://youtube.com/watch?v=bMSBFMaCMTM&search=life%27s%20gonna%20suck%20leary

really catchy :)

[88CRXGUY]

Don't listen to the idiots that have nothing better to say on this subject. They are just saying shit because they don't know it feels like themselves.

On the other hand there are some good things that you can do about it that these people are saying.

Do's:

- Exerise is really good, it helps to realeave stress
- Get at least 8 hours of sleep a night
- Talk to a counsellor or someone that you trust.
- Find something that you enjoy doing (drugs & alcohol don't count)
- Get into something after school that can get you around other people.
- Talk, talk, talk Talking is always a good thing.
- When you get depressed try writing yourself a letter with what your thinking and when your done, throw it away.
- Get a self-help book
- If you ever feel suicidal phone the kids help phone, or 911
- Get outside, the sun will do you good.

Don'ts:

- Try not to isloate yourself from people
- Stay away from fat food(McDicks, Chocolate etc)
- Stay away from drinking & drugs etc when you get depressed
- Don't ever think that this is your fault
- If you need to go on anti-depressants, its not an overnight thing. It takes a bit to get them to work, don't ever stop them cold
- If you are on anti-depressants don't drink on them.

I hope this helps....

[The Cosworth]

Yeah as the trend in this thread is going

1.) find a project or something your passionate about

2.) i think most people (if not all) felt fucked up/depressed/ and whatever else at some time around that age

3.) drugs just push what your experiencing to later in your life (if they "HELP" at all, they dont actually do shit for you.

4.)Find someone to talk to like a buddy you already have (makes a good friend for life too, and you can be there for them when they need it)

5.)When you turn 16, if you can drive that will help out too... you will be able to drive and see your buddies more who are farther away, and do wierd shit that you do when your 16. We used to take girls down to Sicome beach, we captured a procupine on nosehill park once and shit like that.

It gets better

Good Luck Buddy

[Wildcat]

god damn emo's shitting all over my section...

lol :banghead:

[Sharpie]

Originally posted by 88CRXGUY
Don't listen to the idiots that have nothing better to say on this subject. They are just saying shit because they don't know it feels like themselves.

On the other hand there are some good things that you can do about it that these people are saying.

Do's:

- Exerise is really good, it helps to realeave stress
- Get at least 8 hours of sleep a night
- Talk to a counsellor or someone that you trust.
- Find something that you enjoy doing (drugs & alcohol don't count)
- Get into something after school that can get you around other people.
- Talk, talk, talk Talking is always a good thing.
- When you get depressed try writing yourself a letter with what your thinking and when your done, throw it away.
- Get a self-help book
- If you ever feel suicidal phone the kids help phone, or 911
- Get outside, the sun will do you good.

Don'ts:

- Try not to isloate yourself from people
- Stay away from fat food(McDicks, Chocolate etc)
- Stay away from drinking & drugs etc when you get depressed
- Don't ever think that this is your fault
- If you need to go on anti-depressants, its not an overnight thing. It takes a bit to get them to work, don't ever stop them cold
- If you are on anti-depressants don't drink on them.

I hope this helps....

Most of Your do's are my don'ts.... Who the hell writes themselves a letter?And if someone kept talking to me I would kick them in the teeth.

[Darkane]

Originally posted by Wildcat
god damn emo's shitting all over my section...

lol :banghead:

Lol your right. If you dont get out much do 2 things.

1) Masterbate
2) WoW

try to challenge yourself and combine the 2. Also your 15 shouldn't you be drinking at your buddys house and watching porn while his parents are out getting drunk? Emo's didnt exist when I was 15.

[YCB]

Originally posted by Darkane


Lol your right. If you dont get out much do 2 things.

1) Masterbate
2) WoW

try to challenge yourself and combine the 2. Also your 15 shouldn't you be drinking at your buddys house and watching porn while his parents are out getting drunk? Emo's didnt exist when I was 15.

:werd: Let me point you into the right direction :rofl:

Link (http://forums.beyond.ca/showthread.php?s=&threadid=107003)

[FivE.SeveN]

Hey truplaya, It's only because school's out, you're by yourself, and you're bored. Bored = 'argh I hate not doing something productive' = 'I suck!'

So, find something you like doing and fire it up. ;) Especially good if it's a group activity (hell ultimate frisbee is even acceptable, haha).

[Dren]

Originally posted by 88CRXGUY
Don't listen to the idiots that have nothing better to say on this subject. They are just saying shit because they don't know it feels like themselves.

On the other hand there are some good things that you can do about it that these people are saying.

Do's:

- Exerise is really good, it helps to realeave stress
- Get at least 8 hours of sleep a night
- Talk to a counsellor or someone that you trust.
- Find something that you enjoy doing (drugs & alcohol don't count)
- Get into something after school that can get you around other people.
- Talk, talk, talk Talking is always a good thing.
- When you get depressed try writing yourself a letter with what your thinking and when your done, throw it away.
- Get a self-help book
- If you ever feel suicidal phone the kids help phone, or 911
- Get outside, the sun will do you good.

Don'ts:

- Try not to isloate yourself from people
- Stay away from fat food(McDicks, Chocolate etc)
- Stay away from drinking & drugs etc when you get depressed
- Don't ever think that this is your fault
- If you need to go on anti-depressants, its not an overnight thing. It takes a bit to get them to work, don't ever stop them cold
- If you are on anti-depressants don't drink on them.

I hope this helps....


All GREAT advice. i would recommend all this as well.

[BoS_DC2]

I kinda don't understand, if you have a lot of school friends, don't you chat with them on the internet? As you're only 15, you should get your learners =) that'll cheer any boy up :D

[alpha]

Just thought I would toss in my 2 cents. if your gonna pick a hobby, I would avoid cars. Unless you have a pipeline of cash, I think if you ask anyone the satisfaction of modding a car is fleeting. and will probably leave you more depressed and mad at yourself than when you started, lol, but you will get more friends cuz everyones in the same boat, haha!

[AllGoNoShow]

You may need a pipeline of cash to mod cars but you don't need a pipeline of cash to appreciate, drive, learn more, help your parents fix theirs/clean theirs, all of which may add up to them helping you by giving you money to play with your car.

[88CRXGUY]

Whoa calm down there spaz, these are somethings that do work for *some* people. Try different things, these ones make not work for you, but there is something that will. Just try some of the ideas that we are presenting to you, if you are just going to shoot them down your never going to know what is going to work. We are only trying to help, your not alone there is other people that go through this shit everyday too.

[AllGoNoShow]

He hasn't shot anything down, he hasn't even replied so how about you calm down spaz?

[woovic]

Originally posted by TrU3pLaYa786
I'm a regular 15 year old boy. I'm on my 2 month vacation.. so i dont get out alot. (yea weird..) i got alot of school buds.. just not neighbor friends.. w.e.

I've noticed, i dont talk much and feel depressed most of the time..

No I don't do drugs..

what should i do? this si getting crazy. i dont feel like talkjing sometimes..

This is probably one of the worst places to discuss subjects like these. Your gonna get a lot of jokers and only a handful of useful information. It may sound weird, but talk to your parents, in the end they are the only people that truly care.

Guys, keep in mind that this is a 15 year old, he's not dumb, but he is vulnerable.

[Darkane]

What the hell are you talking about? 15 year old boys are retarded. No common sense lol.

Original Poster: Seriously man.. Play a MMO or go get drunk. Im telling you.. go fingerbang a chick or something.. Make your friends smell your fingers. :thumbsup:

[M_K_3]

your fine man... u got a gf? if u dont get one trust me u will be fine if u do... that doesnt work... lube ur self up and go to worldsex.com :P playing hahah...or do what buddy said go out buy a car and work on it man i did :) trust me just keep ur self busy

[codo]

Join boxing, vent your anger somewhere and depression also you get excercise which is sweet. Don't listen to emo music, like Simple Plan!!!! I can't stress this enough.

[woovic]

Yep, this thread is turning into the Ask Leo zone.

[AllGoNoShow]

No its not, its turning into helpign the kid out. Its stupid fucks, useless posters *like yourself* and mis information thats going to get this thread closed or moved to Ask Leo.

[woovic]

Then maybe somebody should start moderating, it seems like everything goes in this thread. Really, what's with these sexual comments everywhere. No offense to AllGoNoShow.

[woovic]

TrU3pLaYa786, try doing some volunteering, it's not as big of a commitment as a job, but it'll give you a sense of imporantance. It'll get you up and going rather than thinking about feeling depressed all the time. I wish you the best of luck.

:clap:

[KuruptEX]

do something u like doing
like me i make videos and playing around with my turntables
trust do somethin u like doing like go ride ur bike around the block
join a sports team talk to your friends over the phone ask if
they wanna chill sometime or or do something
like me when i get depressed (dont no more) i juss call up my
fiance and she always cheers me up so just talk to someone
about it its gonna be all better

and isnt at age 15 u start to realise girls are hot? :dunno:
so u could be depressed about getting a girl?

and never go EMO
:thumbsup:

[KuruptEX]

by any chance are u muslim?
i dunno but in arabic 786 spells allah(yeah im muslim thats how i know :D)
so could it be the stress of how bad muslim are being treated?
and maybe u dont want people to find out your muslim?
:dunno:

[nonsane]

Depression is normal, without a low how are you going to feel the high's in your life?

When it happens all the time however there is something wrong. When i was depressed I had to step back and say 'What is wrong in my life that is making me feel this way?'

Can you think of anything in particular that is affecting your happiness? If you can, try to find what a solution would be(And don't think that you can fix it right away, it took me 6 years to figure what was wrong with me, but you've realized there is a problem at a much earlier age than me :))

Once you realize the problem, and start working on it, you'll feel alot better. Keep in mind some things you can't help(no one wants to be living with their parents, but most places don't hire unless you are over 18 nowaday)

If you like cars, I'd grab some car models from zellers/hobby shops, and build them, it's a great way to learn the basics about cars, and enjoy yourself when you want everyone else to fuck off. I still make some occationally, and i made alot when i was younger.

[Alex_FORD]

Originally posted by nonsane
Depression is normal, without a low how are you going to feel the high's in your life?

When it happens all the time however there is something wrong. When i was depressed I had to step back and say 'What is wrong in my life that is making me feel this way?'

Can you think of anything in particular that is affecting your happiness? If you can, try to find what a solution would be(And don't think that you can fix it right away, it took me 6 years to figure what was wrong with me, but you've realized there is a problem at a much earlier age than me :))

Once you realize the problem, and start working on it, you'll feel alot better. Keep in mind some things you can't help(no one wants to be living with their parents, but most places don't hire unless you are over 18 nowaday)

If you like cars, I'd grab some car models from zellers/hobby shops, and build them, it's a great way to learn the basics about cars, and enjoy yourself when you want everyone else to fuck off. I still make some occationally, and i made alot when i was younger.

Thats some good stuff.

If you spend hundred or thousands of dollars on self help programs like Anthony Robbins, he will tell you that negative emotions are a 'call for action'

for example:
feelings of nervousness or fear about an exam can be a call for more studying or practising, etc

Depression is too vague of a word. Try to use more specific vocabulary when you are describing your situation. Then take action. IMO, most feelings of depression can be helped immediately with constructive actions like going swimming, walking, spending time with a good friend, etc.

[aram1000]

play some sports, when i was 15 i was a basketball junkie and still am today, and that always made me feel good, and ya, u got a lot to look forward too, u are gonna get your license soon, maybe even find a part time job if you can, try to socialize and laugh, even just talk to your parents about stuff, your life is just starting, we all feel shitty at times, its normal, just don't let it get the best of you, good luck, though i'm sure you don't need it cuz you will be fine, the world is waiting for you :thumbsup:

[240sxTurbo]

wow how do u come out and say that online man

[JadranM]

Doesn't McDonalds make you depressed too?
(Supersize me)

Let off the junk food if you do consume lots of it.

[bball2]

Start volunteering? I'm sure that would get you busy / get your mind of being depressed. If you like playing a sport, see if local community teams need any coaches, etc. :thumbsup:

[Blacura]

I would guess at 15 most guys felt depressed.

I say hit the gym, it has definatly been the most mood lifting thing in my life.

[heavyD]

Originally posted by Blacura
I say hit the gym, it has definatly been the most mood lifting thing in my life.

I agree. Good for self esteem and good for your body.

[bspot]

+1 for sports.

Better than the gym because there is the potential for being part of a team and more interaction.

Honestly though man, your 15. Things are supposed to be messed up, its just the way it goes. Everything works out in the end as long as you don't fall in to a bad crowd, trust me :thumbsup:

[2000_SI]

Originally posted by heavyD


I agree. Good for self esteem and good for your body.
Agreed, or start jogging or riding bikes.
I started jogging when I was around your age just to fill the time and keep me busy, and by 16 I started running road-races.

Even though it may not be so spectacular later in life, finishing your first 5/10k road race when your 16 is quite the uplifting eperience.

Its all about setting goals, but not goals that are highly "unrealistic." Saying that you are going to start biking and setting your goal as something like biking in the Tour de France, while quite noble, isnt super realistic. You should be setting goals for yourself all the time, but set them smaller, like achievable within a month, give or take a bit.

Setting smaler goals that, while you still have to work to achieve them, but are achievable over a shorter period of time would be quite benificial to you, because you will find yourself meeting personal goals more often, which is quite uplifting ;)

Don't worry dude, we have all been through that stage in our life, you will be fine.

[heavyD]

Originally posted by bspot
Better than the gym because there is the potential for being part of a team and more interaction.

Not disagreeing or anything but I have met quite a few pretty interesting people at the gym. Everything from nerds to Harley boys.

[slickk]

2 words: Get Laid!:clap:

[Lo)2enz0]

ha ha ha, he has a good point there. works for everyone.

but i have to agree, cars are depressing. always have something else on the side.

[Genjuro]

find a job around people.
i used to be really really shy (not saying that your shy) and not talked much to anyone either, but as soon as i started in my company with many clients to talk to i started to open up and let loose. it helps to express.
dont listen to these sorry sob who say kill yourself, do drugs, be a whore, etc... they just want attention. just go out, work out, do whatever that interests you.

i currently wonder what your depressed about? what do you think when you feel this way?

[01RedDX]

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[nonsane]

drive-by threading

[Unknown303]

Originally posted by 01RedDX
Hey, TruPlaya786, are you still there?
TruPlaya786??!?

Yeah where is this kid at? if he replied even once i would have posted my two cents. But i question if he's coming back.

[Wildcat]

after reading some of the advice given, he probly off'd himself.

[lil*tymer]

maybe you feel deppressed because you are bipolar

[TrU3pLaYa786]

oh yea, sorry guys.. I've been alittle busy.. Same old.. Same old..lol

Depressed is a shitty word.. And hell.. that is no where near what i am.. well figured.

what i am is SHY.. I've figured it! haha

being shy sucks ass. i want to be out there an talking more, i dont know whats stopping me..

and no, i have no effect on polictics, i dont really care that muslims are being mistreated.. (well i do, but comes out wrong) haha btw i am a muslim..

Well it's well out figured. I'm shy.

2 month breaks almost done.. i wanted to start going to the gym in the beginning of the vacation, but i guess i was too lazy.. you know? to rip up alittle bit..

btw thanx alot for all these responses..

[woovic]

Originally posted by TrU3pLaYa786
oh yea, sorry guys.. I've been alittle busy.. Same old.. Same old..lol

Depressed is a shitty word.. And hell.. that is no where near what i am.. well figured.

what i am is SHY.. I've figured it! haha

being shy sucks ass. i want to be out there an talking more, i dont know whats stopping me..

and no, i have no effect on polictics, i dont really care that muslims are being mistreated.. (well i do, but comes out wrong) haha btw i am a muslim..

Well it's well out figured. I'm shy.

2 month breaks almost done.. i wanted to start going to the gym in the beginning of the vacation, but i guess i was too lazy.. you know? to rip up alittle bit..

btw thanx alot for all these responses..

Just be yourself, when the time comes and you want to speak out, I believe you will. It's one of those things that can't be rushed. Peace out and take care buddy.

[Foreign1]

i am sorry you feel sad, its only because you are a teenager and everyone is fucked when they are 15.

[bspot]

Originally posted by Foreign1
i am sorry you feel sad, its only because you are a teenager and everyone is fucked when they are 15.

I'm sorry you're two months too late.

[tapout]

Originally posted by bspot


I'm sorry you're two months too late. :rofl: :rofl: