Need a guy's opinion

[JWL]

You find out that ex (wife/fiance/common law) will be at a concert held in a small venue, and this relationship that you had with them ended badly, would you say:

A) I'll stay home rather than see the bitch's face.
B) Fuck it! I'm going to go to the concert and enjoy myself

And, if you choose B, how do you think you will react when you see them, and with someone?

[gen2teggy]

i pick C

but...really i woulnt care

[snowboard]

youll feel like shit
plane and simple. or is it plain.
whatever. but thats how it is
but i would never give up a concert because my ex was going.

[JRSC00LUDE]

Just go with someone 5 times hotter than he ever could be and have a GREAT time.

Problem Solved.

EDITTED FOR FEMALENESS OF OP

[RaDuS]

b man go have fun just ignore her

[Ben]

Get over it, life is too short to piss and moan. Go, have a good time and make sure she sees you're having a good time. Sometimes the hardest thing is hoping each other are still pissed off and haven't moved on.

And who cares if they're with someone else or you're with someone else. They're an Ex. You don't stay single for life.

[Tik-Tok]

B)

Because if you're a guy, you'd better have gotten your balls back when the relationship ended.

As to how I'd react, I would be polite and friendly, it's the civilized (read: adult) thing to do. (and asides from that nothing is more aggravating to a person who hates you, then playing nice)

[ZorroAMG]

I think you answered the question on your own by posting here.

Forget the concert, you seem too wimpy to handle it.

[rated_R]

B

Have a good time and enjoy yourself because life is too short to be stuck in the past

[adam c]

depends on how long u have been apart for and how long the relationship lasted..

if u guys were together for years and only been broken up a month then i would say no

but if u guys were together a short period of time then fuck it and go

[Isaiah]

Originally posted by JRSC00LUDE
Just go with someone 5 times hotter than she ever could be and have a GREAT time.

Problem Solved.

Which then presents the question: What were you doing with a broad of only 1/5th hotness potential in the first place?

[JRSC00LUDE]

^

I'm not the morality police, he can "rent" one if that's the only way....:D

[LadyLuck]

What Concert?

I say go and enjoy yourself!
have a few drinks and ignore the bitch...bring a hot chick with you!

[lewdvig]

How hot is the girl I am taking?

girl > ex = go
girl < ex = stay

[canadiandaytona]

Being that the tread is "need a guy's opinion" I'm guessing your a Woman.

In which Case either Scank it up (espcially if he cheated on you) (there will beyonders piling in this thread to escort you)
Or don't go

[Hanzo]

^

he mentioned "You find out that ex (wife/fiance/common law)"

so i'm guessing he's a dude.

[Jlude]

Originally posted by JRSC00LUDE
Just go with someone 5 times hotter than she ever could be and have a GREAT time.

Problem Solved.

Good advice... and if you can't find someone 5 times hotter.. just go and show her that you're doin just fine. Put on a smile... ignore her... and focus on the concert!

[JWL]

Thanks for the advice, guys & girls.

I guess I was kinda freaking out when I wrote it, but I've decided to go and enjoy the concert (Matt Costa). If I see them, I'll just ignore them - no need to get all emotional about it, right? I'm not the one at fault here.

As for skanking it up, I don't think it's a concert where I can wear shortest skirt and barely there top. It's a pretty low key crowd. LOL...

[Donmega]

Originally posted by Hanzo
^

he mentioned &quot;You find out that ex (wife/fiance/common law)&quot;

so i'm guessing he's a dude.

I've been staring at your sig for about 5 minutes now. Those are mesmerizing lips .:poosie:


FUCK IT!!! go to the concert with someone HOTTER and enjoy yourself and her :D ;)

[rmk]

Go and have a good time!

[Speed_69]

go to the concert and enjoy yourself..don't let her ruin your plans.

[Jlude]

Originally posted by JWL
Thanks for the advice, guys &amp; girls.

I guess I was kinda freaking out when I wrote it, but I've decided to go and enjoy the concert (Matt Costa). If I see them, I'll just ignore them - no need to get all emotional about it, right? I'm not the one at fault here.

As for skanking it up, I don't think it's a concert where I can wear shortest skirt and barely there top. It's a pretty low key crowd. LOL...

Based on this comment and in your details you say "does it really matter what I drive !?!?!?!" I'm lead to believe you are a girl! (Because it does matter to every guy what he drives!!!)

[abyss]

TTIUWOP. :devil:

[JWL]

Originally posted by Jlude


Based on this comment and in your details you say &quot;does it really matter what I drive !?!?!?!&quot; I'm lead to believe you are a girl! (Because it does matter to every guy what he drives!!!)

Hahaha.... You've got it right Sherlock!

[Melinda]

Originally posted by JWL
As for skanking it up, I don't think it's a concert where I can wear shortest skirt and barely there top. It's a pretty low key crowd. LOL...
You don't have to wear a short skirt and a low top in order to make him notice how good you're doing. I honestly dont think your former guy will be all sorrowful and jealous if he saw you dressed like a whore, he'd possibly feel the opposite actually. However, you dont need to slut it up to make a guy notice how good you're doing post relationship.

Go to the concert and enjoy. Even in an intimate setting there's a chance you may not even see him. And don't waste your fun night looking around the room for him so you can pretend you didn't notice that he's there. As for his reaction if he sees you there? Who gives a shit. Go have fun.

[Weapon_R]

Originally posted by abyss
TTIUWOP. :devil:

NICE! :drool:

[Jlude]

Originally posted by JWL


Hahaha.... You've got it right Sherlock!

Dr. Watson told me!!! (Sherlocks' partner)

[89coupe]

Originally posted by JWL

As for skanking it up, I don't think it's a concert where I can wear shortest skirt and barely there top. It's a pretty low key crowd. LOL...

Feel free to post photos, we can help you decide if its too skanky or not.:thumbsup:

[Jlude]

Originally posted by 89coupe


Feel free to post photos, we can help you decide if its too skanky or not.:thumbsup:

Exactly!!

And maybe we were wrong (it happens once every couple of years) you should take a date... a beyond date... (pending pictures)

[eb0i]

Originally posted by 89coupe


Feel free to post photos, we can help you decide if its too skanky or not.:thumbsup:

well played :thumbsup:

[The Cosworth]

Originally posted by Ben
Get over it, life is too short to piss and moan. Go, have a good time and make sure she sees you're having a good time. Sometimes the hardest thing is hoping each other are still pissed off and haven't moved on.

And who cares if they're with someone else or you're with someone else. They're an Ex. You don't stay single for life.

This is the truth,







Originally posted by JRSC00LUDE
Just go with someone 5 times hotter than she ever could be and have a GREAT time.

Problem Solved.

This works, and you'll have a good night too ;)

[JWL]

I set myself up for that one. :D LOL...

Tried to post pictures, but I don't know how to.

[Jlude]

Uhh... just email them to one of us, we'll post them!

[digi355]

I'll be your date as long as we can provide audio / video for Beyond's enjoyment. We can let the thread decide if I should talk to the x, what I should say and how I should act. It wouldn't really be a date as much as beyond reality show / cheap entertainment for me...

*edit* you're a chick right? Haha, who cares, it would be even funnier if you were a dude.

[JWL]

Originally posted by Jlude
Uhh... just email them to one of us, we'll post them!

I'll send you a picture of the ex and you can post that up. And whoever goes to the concert and sees him can beat him up for me. JK.

[Jlude]

^^^^:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Good sense of adventure!!!

[Tik-Tok]

Originally posted by JWL


I'll send you a picture of the ex and you can post that up. And whoever goes to the concert and sees him can beat him up for me. JK.

Ah, so your a girl, ignore my balls post then.

Might I suggest you find a nice looking girl to go with and make out in his view? (And I don't mean that bar-fake-attention-whore-kissing-girls shite, I mean REALLY make out with her)

[LadyLuck]

Originally posted by Tik-Tok


Ah, so your a girl, ignore my balls post then.

Might I suggest you find a nice looking girl to go with and make out in his view? (And I don't mean that bar-fake-attention-whore-kissing-girls shite, I mean REALLY make out with her)

If she decides to go ahead with this, I will personally Volunteer and REALLY make out with her :clap:

[Donmega]

^^ok, there needs to be FULL documentation. Photo's, Video, the whole works of this!!

[Jlude]

Originally posted by Princess*Precid


If she decides to go ahead with this, I will personally Volunteer and REALLY make out with her :clap:



Originally posted by Donmega
^^ok, there needs to be FULL documentation. Photo's, Video, the whole works of this!!


Sweet Jesus...

I just got home from the bar... my gf is loaded and willing to have a threesome... why can't I have one of these girls on f'n speed dial...

+1 for documentation.... I'll f'n drive you both to the concert... and as an added bonus.... you girls can make out with my gf at the concert!!! your ex will be soooooo jealous!!! (as it probably shows, I'm loaded and have been pressin' the gf about a 3 some alllllllllllllllllllll night!) peace

[A790]

Go, enjoy yourself, and if you're feeling devlish, fuck with 'em. If they approach you, fuck with their head. Lead them to believe that they still have a shot for one last lay, then make them do some crazy fucked up shit and leave them hanging.

+10 points if you can leave them stranded somewhere naked.

+100 points if you can make it their parents house.

[badatusrnames]

Don't let them dictate how you should live your life. Go there, have a great time, hit on some women/men (?) and show them how little you need them and how far you've moved on. From personal experience, there is nothing better than showing the ex how much better off you are without them.

[Daan]

say Hi, smile and enjoy the concert

[phrozen]

Originally posted by Ben
Get over it, life is too short to piss and moan.

What do you mean??? Lol life is the longest thing you have.

But IMO, I'd say B for sure, just relax and enjoy yourself.

[403Gemini]

Page 2 , no pictures wtf

Honestly id go either way. Just go with your new partner and a group of friends ... if your ex makes a big deal just blow it off, it'll make them look stupider in the end

[ekguy]

2 words come to mind from my point of view

ANGRY SEX

[JWL]

Originally posted by A790
Go, enjoy yourself, and if you're feeling devlish, fuck with 'em. If they approach you, fuck with their head. Lead them to believe that they still have a shot for one last lay, then make them do some crazy fucked up shit and leave them hanging.

+10 points if you can leave them stranded somewhere naked.

+100 points if you can make it their parents house.

Yeah, don't think that's gonna happen. He'll most likely be there with his white trash gf.

[Toms-SC]

Not reading all this shit, is she hot? nudes?

[JWL]

Originally posted by Toms-SC
Not reading all this shit, is she hot? nudes?

Would love to post a picture of the two, but I don't know how to post pics. Oh and no nudies... I would love to "ruin" them!

[Canmorite]

E-mail one of the guys who said they would post the pics. :thumbsup:

[icecreamvan]

Nudez are so last year.


Post up some girlongirl vids.

[JWL]

Well, I emailed someone so let's hope he'll post them up for me. LOL

[LadyLuck]

ok, im confused...

are you trying to put up pics of yourself, or the other chick..

you could always send them to me and i can post them up :D

[Jlude]

JWL... check your pm

[jdm_eg6]

you will have to understand that you will need to let it go and forget about it. bringing someone which is a close friend or someone you like will defiantly help you enjoy yourself and forget about them.

[JWL]

Originally posted by jdm_eg6
you will have to understand that you will need to let it go and forget about it. bringing someone which is a close friend or someone you like will defiantly help you enjoy yourself and forget about them.

You know, I do understand that I have to let go rather than hold onto this anger, but when someone you trusted hurts you so bad (and even when you had trust issues to begin with) all you think about is revenge. You may think I'm some kinda psycho bitch, but you don't know the whole story and I'm sure if you knew what he did would be raging. Anyway, I know I'm better off without him and it's a blessing in disguise, but it's the fact that what he did to me... wasn't very nice.

[Jason Lange]

Originally posted by JWL

but it's the fact that what he did to me... wasn't very nice.

What he do?

[turbotrip]

^hahaha nice edit

[Jason Lange]

Ha funny you caught that, buddy was on my account...it was funny but...

[stevo 27]

if you guys just broke up and you see him go up to him slap him in the face and yell you gave me (insert std here) his new woman wil peace his night will be ruined and he'll be scared shitlless


:rofl:

[Eleanor]

Originally posted by icecreamvan
Post up some girlongirl vids.

I've got a cup and some light piano music :bigpimp:

and I can't believe abyss was the first to ask for pics, shame on you beyond :D

[Rat Fink]

.

[lint]

Originally posted by JWL

... I'm some kinda psycho bitch ...

uh huh, stay away boys, stay away....

:D

I think you should go, and when you see the ex, grab a guy next to you, do a few military presses, gorilla slam him to the ground and mouth "You're next!"

[ZorroAMG]

Originally posted by ZorroAMG
I think you answered the question on your own by posting here.

Forget the concert, you seem too wimpy to handle it.



I'll edit my previous statement since it all makes sense now lady:

Go to the concert, make out with the dude's white trash (why are you jealous?) gf and post said pics in this thread, OR....

go emo.

[JWL]

Originally posted by lint


uh huh, stay away boys, stay away....

:D

I think you should go, and when you see the ex, grab a guy next to you, do a few military presses, gorilla slam him to the ground and mouth &quot;You're next!&quot;

Hahaha.... do guys actually like that kinda thing? Isn't that a little too aggressive?

Working on the pics. I got someone to help me with them.

[freshprince1]

The best thing you could do is show them you've moved on, and could really care less whether or not they are there.

So smile, say hi, ask how they are doing, then just walk away and have a blast!!


...and posts some pic's, the beyonders are famous for their handiwork...

[Donmega]

Originally posted by JWL


Hahaha.... do guys actually like that kinda thing? Isn't that a little too aggressive?

Working on the pics. I got someone to help me with them.

It's fun to be a by-stander and watch this girl go from human to she-hulk and rip apart some random guy.

If you still need help posting pics, lemme know, ill get them posted :D

[rmk]

http://www.albany.edu/~kg9770/attentionwhore.gif

[JWL]

Originally posted by rmk
http://www.albany.edu/~kg9770/attentionwhore.gif

*SOB*:cry:
You're saying I'm an attention whore? You're hurting my feelings. :( I'm never ever going to post here again! *humph!*

LOL.... I got Jlude to post the pics up... not sure when he'll get to it.

[rmk]

Not calling you an attention whore, per se. Just thought it suited the thread. No offense to you.

[Donmega]

is this going anywhere?? jlude post the pics man!

[JWL]

Originally posted by Jason Lange


What he do?

I guess you can say that he p'owned me?!
http://img172.imageshack.us/img172/574/isitthisoneri5.jpg

Anyway, here is a picture of the douchebag and the skank. If you see him on the streets, you can give him a punch in the face for me. :) JK.... (kinda, sorta, not really) LOL...

[Melinda]

^^ Why are you posting pictures of your ex and his new gf? Why do you even have these? Seriously, life's too valuable to dwell on things so hard and be as bitter as you clearly are. He's ugly anyways, why are you so hung up on him still? Move on and enjoy your life, green isn't a good color for anyone.

[A790]

Originally posted by JWL


I guess you can say that he p'owned me?!
http://img172.imageshack.us/img172/574/isitthisoneri5.jpg

Anyway, here is a picture of the douchebag and the skank. If you see him on the streets, you can give him a punch in the face for me. :) JK.... (kinda, sorta, not really) LOL...
Ahahaha he looks like a cheese puff. Nice.

[codo]

Dude man, we found the missing link...why do you have that picture?

[ZorroAMG]

HAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHA he looks like a troll.

Don't sweat it.

[turbotrip]

wtf who asked for a pic of this fool?

[badatusrnames]

Haha, he sports the look of a classic douche.

[LadyLuck]

:whocares:

bf needs to put his shirt back on..

and now that you've posted pix of him and his gf....
its time for you to post some damn pix of yourself!!!!

[kerry]

Originally posted by Princess*Precid
and now that you've posted pix of him and his gf....
its time for you to post some damn pix of yourself!!!!

Ladies and Gentlemen... allow me to introduce EK2.0 v2 The Lesbian Goddess.

And I agree, he needs a shirt. I'm not as fat as that dude and I don't walk around with no shirt on. Plus she's a troll.... actually they're both trolls. I wonder who's watching their bridge right now while they're out trying to find children to eat.

As far as my advice goes, goto the concert/venue etc. If you are in fact a female... bring me with you. I'm way better looking than that fuck ;)

[LadyLuck]

Originally posted by kerry


Ladies and Gentlemen... allow me to introduce EK2.0 v2 The Lesbian Goddess.



Somehow...I want to put you in my Signature!

:thumbsup:

[kerry]

Pm'd instructions. I'm at SAIT all day if you'd like some one-on-one instruction of beyond.ca usage. ;)

[HK2NR]

http://www.familyguyquotes.com/images/chris.gif

[LadyLuck]

oh look!

I guess ill have to take you up on that ...coffee...sometime soon :thumbsup:

[Eleanor]

Originally posted by JWL


I guess you can say that he p'owned me?!
http://img172.imageshack.us/img172/574/isitthisoneri5.jpg

Anyway, here is a picture of the douchebag and the skank. If you see him on the streets, you can give him a punch in the face for me. :) JK.... (kinda, sorta, not really) LOL...

I dont know which is funnier, this picture or p'owned :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[Primer_Drift]

Originally posted by kerry


Ladies and Gentlemen... allow me to introduce EK2.0 v2 The Lesbian Goddess.



No such thing as hot lesbians, it is a fallacy created by the pr0n industry.

Case in point:
http://www.abc.net.au/reslib/200706/r152115_543446.jpg

[Donmega]

Originally posted by Primer_Drift
No such thing as hot lesbians

^^that's what you say!!:cry:

[LadyLuck]

Originally posted by Primer_Drift



No such thing as hot lesbians, it is a fallacy created by the pr0n industry.

Case in point:
http://www.abc.net.au/reslib/200706/r152115_543446.jpg

uhhh pr0n?
:english:

but then again, you've probably never been laid and your last resort was watching the Ellen Degeneres show...

[Primer_Drift]

wat?

Never heard of pr0n? Here.. visit www.UrbanDictionary.com (www.lemonparty.org) to figure it out.

[LadyLuck]

Leisha Heiley, Real life lesbian, Actress and NOT a pornstar..
Hot?

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y9/ginger_rawks/leisha.jpg

Kristanna Loken, Real life lesbian, Actress and NOT a pornstar..
HOT?

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y9/ginger_rawks/paige.jpg


CASE CLOSED![IMG]

[Donmega]

thank you...i dunno about the first one but the next one is nice looking :)

[5hift]

^^

there may be a few hot lezbos, but I think everyone will agree for the majority, they are the ugly girls that turned after no guys showed interest in them

[USED1]

Originally posted by Princess*Precid
Leisha Heiley, Real life lesbian, Actress and NOT a pornstar..
Hot?

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y9/ginger_rawks/leisha.jpg

Kristanna Loken, Real life lesbian, Actress and NOT a pornstar..
HOT?

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y9/ginger_rawks/paige.jpg


CASE CLOSED![IMG]

These are exceptional cases, how do you match up?:??

[LadyLuck]

It is true, there are some pretty fug lesbos around..

sadly the majority of lesbos in calgary are butch dykes :cry:

[lint]

Originally posted by Primer_Drift



No such thing as hot lesbians, it is a fallacy created by the pr0n industry.

Case in point:
http://www.abc.net.au/reslib/200706/r152115_543446.jpg

And here's her partner, Portia de Rossi of Ally McBeal and Sirens fame

http://l.yimg.com/img.tv.yahoo.com/tv/us/img/site/09/91/0000000991_20060919140946.jpg http://entimg.msn.com/i/gal/PortiaDeRossi/DeRossi_P_S24157_400.jpg
http://english.pravda.ru/img/idb/photo/portia-de-rossi-2.jpg

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/150/421121727_34ae3ae0f6.jpg

[kerry]

Originally posted by Princess*Precid
oh look!

I guess ill have to take you up on that ...coffee...sometime soon :thumbsup:

Wooo hooooo!!!!!

This thread has gone into such a great direction.

[Primer_Drift]

http://l.yimg.com/img.tv.yahoo.com/tv/us/img/site/09/91/0000000991_20060919140946.jpg
^^ sick. I know a good optometrist if you are having trouble USING YOUR DAMN EYES!!

Princess,
Kristana loken is bi-sexual, which is just sitting on the fucking fence if you ask me.. but more to the point NOT a lesbian. Your point is moot, as your first example Leisha Hailey is ugly. Exceptions to the rule exist, granted, as it is a rule not a scientificaly quantifiable law.

Are you a hot lesbian? pics or ban :poosie:

/threadjack

[Donmega]

Originally posted by 403Gemini
Page 2 , no pictures wtf

Honestly id go either way. Just go with your new partner and a group of friends ... if your ex makes a big deal just blow it off, it'll make them look stupider in the end



Originally posted by Canmorite
E-mail one of the guys who said they would post the pics. :thumbsup:



Originally posted by Princess*Precid
:whocares:

bf needs to put his shirt back on..

and now that you've posted pix of him and his gf....
its time for you to post some damn pix of yourself!!!!




K, she just sent these over and no i didnt do that to the face.


http://img131.imageshack.us/img131/2446/fitness1yw0.jpg

http://img221.imageshack.us/img221/9020/fitness2xv8.jpg



if so the 'troll' left her for the skinny

[JWL]

Originally posted by Primer_Drift


Are you a hot lesbian? pics or ban :poosie:

/threadjack

Not a lesbo, and the pics are up. Some of the guys on here can vouch that the pics are real.

I did the competition a couple years back while I was dating the douchebag.

Edit: Thanks for doing that for me Donmega

[abyss]

grabs popcorn.... :drama: