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lindaL
12-28-2012, 12:03 PM
So which club you would recommended?

Okay I love hanging out with nerdy girls than party girls..
Maybe because as an engineer I am somewhat nerdy as well.
Anyways most my close friends don't like clubbing, they even hate it.
but I love loud music. I love watching crazy drunk people dancing. And I do love how I can wear as sexy as I want when clubbing, I love how I can wear those clothes that you don't wear to work or school.
I do have an engineering friend who is always willing to go clubbing with me, too bad she is on vacation now.

I love doing things myself, I feel comfortable going shopping or eating alone sometimes so I don't have to wait the others. I love how strangers will talk to me because they don't when I am with my friends.
However I have never been clubbing alone!

and I really want to go clubbing on the 31.
However safety is still a bit of my concern, if there's no club that's good for me going alone I will just go to gay night club

Seth1968
12-28-2012, 12:05 PM
Have at 'er boys. lol

G-ZUS
12-28-2012, 12:07 PM
Before we can determine if its safe for you, we need to see pics :thumbsup:

lilmira
12-28-2012, 12:10 PM
It's a trap!

Kloubek
12-28-2012, 12:12 PM
This is SO the wrong forum for you. You want to be safe and avoid predators... yet, you just jumped into the shark tank to ask the questions.

xorina
12-28-2012, 12:16 PM
troll

GS430
12-28-2012, 12:19 PM
Obvious troll.
http://imagemacros.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/its_a_trap.jpg

GQBalla
12-28-2012, 12:20 PM
previous post say her english is second language.

Have fun Boys n Girl.

Pagin EK 2.0

be careful, could be a trap.

lindaL
12-28-2012, 12:21 PM
Maybe you were right, because people always tell me it is dangerous, but I still don't get it. :confused: When people approach me I can always walk away isn't it?
Are they gonna punch me if I reject them?? (This is a serious question, because if they will then I wont go alone)
Would if be better if I don't get drunk??Because I've never been drunk, and if I am going alone I will make sure I won't be drunk

Supa Dexta
12-28-2012, 12:21 PM
http://i186.photobucket.com/albums/x171/CJOKUSAP/motivator6835943.jpg

lindaL
12-28-2012, 12:26 PM
Originally posted by GQBalla
previous post say her english is second language.

Have fun Boys n Girl.

Pagin EK 2.0

be careful, could be a trap.
Yes English is my second language, and I am bisexual, I thought this is normal? I dont know if Canadian are more Conservative? It's a very good country
I was in a girl school in my country, I have more gay/les/bi friends than straight friends.
Pagin EK 2.0 < what does this mean sorry??

G-ZUS
12-28-2012, 12:26 PM
Originally posted by lindaL
Because I've never been drunk, and if I am going alone I will make sure I won't be drunk

In that case, you're better off going to Jimmy Deans

Boosted131
12-28-2012, 12:32 PM
Not sure if serious or troll... I've never found clubs dangerous since there's so many peoPle and lots of bouncers/security... As long as you take a taxi/ride from friend home.

Supa Dexta
12-28-2012, 12:33 PM
Only thing I'd really watch for is something in your drink.

Darkane
12-28-2012, 12:35 PM
Originally posted by lindaL
and I am bisexual, I thought this is normal?



:rofl: :rofl:

No it's not normal. You have engineering nerdy friends, are they Bi-sexual?

Seth1968
12-28-2012, 01:02 PM
.

dewytrain
12-28-2012, 01:08 PM
I would suggest finding a local cuddle party, see where that takes you.

roll_over
12-28-2012, 01:16 PM
you like nerdy girls that sounds like 76% of beyond members.

urrforce
12-28-2012, 01:17 PM
Originally posted by GQBalla
previous post say her english is second language.

Have fun Boys n Girl.

Pagin EK 2.0

be careful, could be a trap.


was just gonna say where is ek lol

Blue
12-28-2012, 01:38 PM
Ill take you clubbing ;)

Kloubek
12-28-2012, 01:39 PM
Originally posted by lindaL
and I am bisexual

Well now you're just throwing chum in the water. Must be a troll.

95EG6P
12-28-2012, 01:42 PM
Originally posted by G-ZUS
Before we can determine if its safe for you, we need to see pics :thumbsup:

lol:rofl:

GQBalla
12-28-2012, 01:58 PM
Originally posted by lindaL

Yes English is my second language, and I am bisexual, I thought this is normal? I dont know if Canadian are more Conservative? It's a very good country
I was in a girl school in my country, I have more gay/les/bi friends than straight friends.
Pagin EK 2.0 &lt; what does this mean sorry??

Are you from China?

It's pretty normal, we do live in Canada.

EK 2.0 will become your new best friend.

l/l/rX
12-28-2012, 02:26 PM
Originally posted by GQBalla


Are you from China?

It's pretty normal, we do live in Canada.

EK 2.0 will become your new best friend.

China? I would have guessed phillipines or thailand first before china bro. Noob. :drama:

edit: i eat my words. good guess matt. hahaha

lindaL
12-28-2012, 02:29 PM
Okay I am not angry but feel sad. And your responses are totally off the topic.
I am from Taiwan, not China. Yes English is my second language. We all know girls are more attractive than guys, but its ok if you think boys are more attractive to you. I am bisexual because straight boys usually being so very nice to me so I give them chances, and I dont think I should reject them only because only they are men, because eventually sex is not everything, thats just too shallow for me. Its just more important that your partner is your soul mate not your fuck buddy.
Gay or Les are not allowed to get merried in Taiwan, but people are working on it these years. But in Canada, I supposed there should not be discrimination against people with different sexual oriataion, races or color. I am not doing anything wrong so I dont feel ashame to say it out.
But please correct me if what I am reading from the Canadian webites are wrong.
"Canada's diversity includes gay and lesbian Canadians, who enjoy the full protection of and equal treatment under the law, including access to civil marriage."

http://i.imgur.com/bNwYp.jpg?1

you people want to see my picture that's fine, if any of you ever seen me, you probably already knew I am bisexsual, because I never hide it. I am being polite here, because I respect everyone, so please don't make me feel that you don't deserve my respect.

Kavy
12-28-2012, 02:34 PM
This thread has great potential.

Just want to quickly recap:

Your a nerdy, all alone girl who likes to dress sexy and party and have the occasional bisexual experience.

http://us.cdn3.123rf.com/168nwm/dvarg/dvarg1006/dvarg100600013/7140029-illustration-of-scared-worm-on-hook.jpg

heavyD
12-28-2012, 02:40 PM
This is a predominantly male website which means you will get a lot of low brow responses. If you are truly who you say you are you will be fine going by yourself as long as you stay sober. I guess that concludes this thread.

lindaL
12-28-2012, 02:44 PM
Originally posted by Kavy
This thread has great potential.

Just want to quickly recap:

Your a nerdy, all alone girl who likes to dress sexy and party and have the occasional bisexual experience.

http://singleinmy30s.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/too-good-to-be-true.jpg

yeah I was asked "Are you nerd?" when my fd asked me out and I said I had to study.
I love reading nerdy joke.
I told my friends I am sick so I can play Diablo3
I don't social too much only once a while.
I love clubbing not too often because only one girl goes clubbing with me.
yes I am wierd I am very lazy socializing with people, making friends but I always havesomeone who loves me while I love him/her too.
Who says nerds are supposed to be missarable?

Kavy
12-28-2012, 02:44 PM
Originally posted by heavyD
This is a predominantly male website which means you will get a lot of low brow responses. If you are truly who you say you are you will be fine going by yourself as long as you stay sober. I guess that concludes this thread.

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-dlQV_1ElKUY/UDdwPXBxJ_I/AAAAAAAABPI/SOTcsNjvhKY/s1600/debbie.jpg

lindaL
12-28-2012, 02:46 PM
Originally posted by heavyD
This is a predominantly male website which means you will get a lot of low brow responses. If you are truly who you say you are you will be fine going by yourself as long as you stay sober. I guess that concludes this thread.
yes you are right but since I posted my picture, I won't go to straight club. But anyways this whole conversation still worths it, let me understand what people think.

heavyD
12-28-2012, 02:48 PM
Originally posted by lindaL
But anyways this whole conversation still worths it, let me understand what people think.

I'm sure it is worth it to you as you are having laughs at the expense of horny dudes. The gig is up with your fake broken english and laughable story.

Kavy
12-28-2012, 02:55 PM
Originally posted by heavyD


I'm sure it is worth it to you as you are having laughs at the expense of horny dudes. The gig is up with your fake broken english and laughable story.

LindaL has been posting for like 5 months, if its a gig the person behind the curtain is pertinacious like no other.

heavyD
12-28-2012, 02:58 PM
Originally posted by Kavy


LindaL has been posting for like 5 months, if its a gig the person behind the curtain is pertinacious like no other.

Maybe but the fact that she wants to keep a pointless discussion ongoing leads me to believe that something is fishy here.

G-ZUS
12-28-2012, 03:00 PM
I recommended a club for you to go too, its called Jimmy Deans

lindaL
12-28-2012, 03:05 PM
Originally posted by heavyD


I'm sure it is worth it to you as you are having laughs at the expense of horny dudes. The gig is up with your fake broken english and laughable story.
My english IS broken. I don't care that much ,afterall this is only my second language...but I didn't fake it.
I wasn't going to tell my sexual orientation but since someone said it for me I just didn't feel like I have to deny it.
The only thing that is fake would be- "LindaL" is only my account id not my real name. It seems like none us using real names for id anyways?

ExtraSlow
12-28-2012, 03:09 PM
Going to the bar alone increases your chance of being given roofies by about ten times.

If you do insist on going alone, drink only bottled drinks that you see them take the top off.

vtec4life
12-28-2012, 03:11 PM
I would

lindaL
12-28-2012, 03:12 PM
Originally posted by heavyD


Maybe but the fact that she wants to keep a pointless discussion ongoing leads me to believe that something is fishy here.
It's just whenever I say something on internet, people always think I am lying. This usually doesn't happen to me in real life.

Oh and the reason I mentioned about gay club was that I am very non-attractive to gay people or even lesbian people. Usually I have to approach girls to grab attention. I guess as a girl I am too girly for them. Maybe it will be fun and more people in other clubs celebrating New Years Eve, but Gay bar is not bad, at least safe for me.

max_boost
12-28-2012, 03:16 PM
Someone take on the challenge! You never know! lol

taemo
12-28-2012, 03:19 PM
how's even the clubbing scene in Calgary?
haven't been one in over 3 years, is The Bank the way to go now a days?

OP, are you planning on going to pick up random guys or girls or just want to party with strangers?
If the latter, there will always be some guy that will be approaching you anyways.
If you're good then maybe you can pick up the bartenders or girls selling beers

heavyD
12-28-2012, 03:20 PM
Originally posted by lindaL

It's just whenever I say something on internet, people always think I am lying. This usually doesn't happen to me in real life.

You essentially hit the nail on the head comparing 'real life' to 'internet'. I'm accusing an anonymous internet poster here because I obviously am not conversing face to face where it would be real. Maybe you are the real deal and if so what type of responses were you expecting from a predominantly male site? Are you looking for an escort because I'm sure someone here would gladly show you around.

lindaL
12-28-2012, 03:46 PM
Originally posted by heavyD


You essentially hit the nail on the head comparing 'real life' to 'internet'. I'm accusing an anonymous internet poster here because I obviously am not conversing face to face where it would be real. Maybe you are the real deal and if so what type of responses were you expecting from a predominantly male site? Are you looking for an escort because I'm sure someone here would gladly show you around.
I didn't know this was a predominantly male site. I didn't even know what gender you are.
And according to the law we are legally responsible and liable for whatever we say, includes comments we make on internet. It might be difficult to prosecute but its totally possible. So maybe I should correct myself, internet is part of real life as well. And strangers on internet are still strangers of course i wasn't trying to find an escort, I just wanted advice for me to see if any clubs that might be safe, but maybe none of them are so I will just go for gay club.

GQBalla
12-28-2012, 03:59 PM
Originally posted by l/l/rX


China? I would have guessed phillipines or thailand first before china bro. Noob. :drama:

edit: i eat my words. good guess matt. hahaha

NEWB!



Originally posted by lindaL
Okay I am not angry but feel sad. And your responses are totally off the topic.
I am from Taiwan, not China. Yes English is my second language. We all know girls are more attractive than guys, but its ok if you think boys are more attractive to you. I am bisexual because straight boys usually being so very nice to me so I give them chances, and I dont think I should reject them only because only they are men, because eventually sex is not everything, thats just too shallow for me. Its just more important that your partner is your soul mate not your fuck buddy.
Gay or Les are not allowed to get merried in Taiwan, but people are working on it these years. But in Canada, I supposed there should not be discrimination against people with different sexual oriataion, races or color. I am not doing anything wrong so I dont feel ashame to say it out.
But please correct me if what I am reading from the Canadian webites are wrong.
&quot;Canada's diversity includes gay and lesbian Canadians, who enjoy the full protection of and equal treatment under the law, including access to civil marriage.&quot;

http://i.imgur.com/bNwYp.jpg?1

you people want to see my picture that's fine, if any of you ever seen me, you probably already knew I am bisexsual, because I never hide it. I am being polite here, because I respect everyone, so please don't make me feel that you don't deserve my respect.

back on topic, sorry i had to help out my friend EK 2.0 find out information.

I would say its safe, but this is me as a guy. I honestly don't know any girls that go clubbing alone. I can't say i have heard about someone getting drugged in a club.

You say you don't get drunk so don't get drunk. Simple.

EK 2.0 may say hi at some point.

Supa Dexta
01-01-2013, 02:44 PM
So how did it go!? Score any muff?

Maybelater
01-01-2013, 03:31 PM
I know like one girl who goes out alone, but it is such a social event I don't think people feel comfortable going by themselves.

FraserB
01-02-2013, 12:31 AM
PM user "Sorath" or, like it has been pointed out, "EK2.0".

Both are chill guys who would like to show you around.

Sorath
01-02-2013, 01:10 AM
guy, if they are old enough to go to the bar, too old for me :rofl:

TomcoPDR
01-02-2013, 01:32 AM
Originally posted by Sorath
guy, if they are old enough to go to the bar, too old for me :rofl:

http://i142.photobucket.com/albums/r95/Tomcompany/Past%20repairs/Random/Like_zps4bfdd8b9.png

Sorath
01-02-2013, 02:10 AM
though it might be around max boost alley since he likes barely legal teens :poosie:

TomcoPDR
01-02-2013, 02:30 AM
Originally posted by Sorath
though it might be around max boost alley since he likes barely legal teens :poosie:

That man is the urban dictionary defintion of sugar daddy.

dj_patm
01-02-2013, 10:11 AM
She's Bi-Sexual and from Thailand and you guys actually believe she's a girl?

Maybe I've seen to many comedies.

l/l/rX
01-02-2013, 10:17 AM
Originally posted by dj_patm
She's Bi-Sexual and from Thailand and you guys actually believe she's a girl?

Maybe I've seen to many comedies.

She's Taiwanese...

dj_patm
01-02-2013, 10:25 AM
Originally posted by l/l/rX


She's Taiwanese...

My bad.

Still. This screams trap.

max_boost
01-02-2013, 12:27 PM
Originally posted by dj_patm


My bad.

Still. This screams trap. Yes, most likely.

For the 1/100 that these things ever work out, yours truly has already got the 1 so you guys might as well wait for 98 more of these tarps to pass by before jumping on it. Good luck. LOL