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Disoblige
10-05-2020, 12:17 PM
I stumbled upon this article again after seeing a recent newborn with a inherited condition, and it made it wonder...


New mom Suzanne Lamb is trying to cope as best she can with her newborn son’s skin condition.

“If you pick him up underneath the armpits, he blisters instantly,” she told Global News.

Elias is 11 days old and was born with the rare genetic disorder called epidermolysis bullosa. It’s often referred to as “butterfly skin” because the skin is as fragile and delicate as the wings of a butterfly.

Elias’ skin is so sensitive it could tear like tissue paper with the slightest friction.

It was something they braced for. Elias’ father was also born with the condition and there was a 50 per cent chance his children would inherit it.

“When I was born I had very little skin from the wrist up,” Taylor said. “My dad used the term, ‘It looked like a piece of raw meat,’ and I was in the NICU for two months.”

The family has shared photos of what’s underneath Elias’ bandages online. The images are tough to look at, but the family doesn’t want to filter the difficult truth.

“It’s one thing hearing about it, but it’s a completely other thing to see an infant go through it,” Lamb said.

https://globalnews.ca/news/4275219/butterfly-baby-calgary-parents-epidermolysis-bullosa/

Hate to see the suffering of the newborn, it's quite frustrating actually. If you KNEW that there was a 50% risk of this happening, why even consider having kids? I know I wouldn't want to risk giving my child a life of suffering with this condition.
They also have a GoFundMe page set up for their expenses, but I'm having a lot of trouble feeling sorry for them. I feel really bad for the kid though, for their parents being idiots.

I've seen a few examples of parents having some really life altering conditions that are hereditary and they still decide to have biological children. It boggles my mind. Adopt or something, come on.

Thoughts?

The_Rural_Juror
10-05-2020, 12:20 PM
Poor kid. :(

2Legit2Quit
10-05-2020, 12:27 PM
Jesus christ those pictures, poor kid to say the least.

ExtraSlow
10-05-2020, 12:37 PM
I am not clicking that link. I know the pain and emotion you go through with a nearly healthy baby. I cannot imagine the agony of a baby with significant health issues like that.

The_Rural_Juror
10-05-2020, 12:39 PM
I am not clicking that link. I know the pain and emotion you go through with a nearly healthy baby. I cannot imagine the agony of a baby with significant health issues like that.

I clicked on the link but did not click on the NSFL photos.

Disoblige
10-05-2020, 12:41 PM
I cannot imagine the agony of a baby with significant health issues like that.
Exactly...

So I'm seriously trying to wrap my head around, what kind of parent would be so selfish to want biological kids so bad that they would take that risk? I simply can't understand the stupidity.

The_Rural_Juror
10-05-2020, 12:48 PM
It has been over 2 years but no follow up. I wonder how the kid is doing.

dirtsniffer
10-05-2020, 12:52 PM
"A 2014 study classified cases into three types.. and reviewed their times of death. The first two types tended to die in infancy and the last in early adulthood."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epidermolysis_bullosa#Treatment

What the fuck were these people thinking.


It has been over 2 years but no follow up. I wonder how the kid is doing.

Took a couple minutes to find the parents on facebook. Kid seems to be doing well considering..

dirtsniffer
10-05-2020, 01:06 PM
meant to edit my previous post.. not quote it. please delete.

firebane
10-05-2020, 01:08 PM
Exactly...

So I'm seriously trying to wrap my head around, what kind of parent would be so selfish to want biological kids so bad that they would take that risk? I simply can't understand the stupidity.

The same people who feel that its everyone's right to have a GoFundMe the second the world hands you a lemon.

FraserB
10-05-2020, 01:20 PM
The same people who feel that its everyone's right to have a GoFundMe the second the world hands you a lemon.

This is more like putting an orange and a lemon in a bag and then getting upset when you pull one out and it’s the lemon

Xtrema
10-05-2020, 01:27 PM
Exactly...

So I'm seriously trying to wrap my head around, what kind of parent would be so selfish to want biological kids so bad that they would take that risk? I simply can't understand the stupidity.

House always wins, yet casinos have not gone bankrupt yet.

Deep down, we are all Han Solo

https://youtu.be/uYX-NSZMqt0

BerserkerCatSplat
10-05-2020, 01:39 PM
Hate to see the suffering of the newborn, it's quite frustrating actually. If you KNEW that there was a 50% risk of this happening, why even consider having kids? I know I wouldn't want to risk giving my child a life of suffering with this condition.
They also have a GoFundMe page set up for their expenses, but I'm having a lot of trouble feeling sorry for them. I feel really bad for the kid though, for their parents being idiots.

I've seen a few examples of parents having some really life altering conditions that are hereditary and they still decide to have biological children. It boggles my mind. Adopt or something, come on.

Thoughts?


Can't disagree, a potentially-fatal genetic disorder with a 50% risk of being passed on is one of the major reasons we're not having kids. Keep in mind that you can do IVF to avoid things like that, so it's not a complete writeoff but can be expensive. Usually you can test for genetic disorders in-vitro as well with enough time to abort, though I'm not familiar enough with the butterfly thing to know if that's true for it. Seems like this could have been avoided.

The_Rural_Juror
10-05-2020, 01:39 PM
Took a couple minutes to find the parents on facebook. Kid seems to be doing well considering..

Gracias. I do not bookface.