Should your wife have guy-friends?

http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/perso...nds/index.html

what do y'all think? and, how much you wanna bet that "Eric" is gay? (nothing wrong with that at all, but i bet he is).

i still think that in most platonic relationships between men and women, there is at least some sexual tension somewhere.

wouldn't the world be such a better place if everyone could realize there is a difference between 'fucking' and romantic love and having a spouse/soulmate/partner, so we didn't have to worry about this crap?? and then you could just fuck your 'friends' and everything would be cool :poosie:

mods, perhaps this could be moved to law/society/politics?

you get married for a reason, if your wife has a guy friend, then he better be your friend too, as in she only sees or talks with him if you are around, and the same goes for the guy with a lady friend.

but then again everyone has their own set of values and morals
:dunno: :nut:

haha, ya i guess if it was your wife and another guy, that would be a bit different than if it was you and some other guy's wife, methinks hahahahahhaaa :nut: :nut:

http://www.laddertheory.com/

Wow, rick, controlling much? LOL

I think it's fine for her to have guy friends as long as she's fine with you having girl friends. Her going out by herself with a guy is a little too "date" like for my tastes but I'd trust my wife otherwise I wouldn't be married.

Very interesting topic that I can speak to from personal experience.

My wife has rarely had woman friends. All her friends are male. From before I met her to now. Some were gay, some were straight.

Problem lies in that her interests include reading, politics, sociology, video games etc. Interests that are held mainly by males. It is much harder for her to find a woman that has the same attitudes and interests she has. If we walk outside she’s mostly disgusted with how young woman act, dress and gossip about bullshit or what was on TV the night before. Very vapid.

It would not be fair to her for me to tell her not to have any male friends because that would basically make her a shut-in. It’s a simple matter of statistics. It’s not about male/female, it’s about a person that holds the same interests you do.

I don't know how many times I've heard chicks say "they don't get along with girls". I don't date girls that have a ton of guy friends simply for the fact that I know all the girls I hang out with I've either banged, or want to bang. I consider myself quite the ethical person, so a lesser man would definitely want to rail on my girl, friends or not.

I like what Zorro said, if she wants guy friends, she better not get pissed when I roll out one night with a bunch of chicks. :dunno:

As men, we're programmed to want to reproduce by nature... it only makes sense that her guy friends want to do her unless she's a pig from hell.

That said, I'm not one of those guys who freaks if my girl talks to some dude. Those guys are funny. Insecurity tends to make women think less of the guy. I dated a chick who's ex was sooo insecure that he thought she was out fucking EVERYONE. She;d been trying to break up with him for months when we started hanging out. She wasn't fucking everyone... just me.

I'll tell you guys why this can't work most of the time.

Guys can't befriend women because they want to fuck them. It's that simple, once you're past this you can have girl's as "friends".

I've been through this so many times, and everyone I've talked to eventually agrees.

You don't want to fuck your guy friends do you?

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Originally posted by Darkane
I'll tell you guys why this can't work most of the time.

Guys can't befriend women because they want to fuck them. It's that simple, once you're past this you can have girl's as "friends".

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:werd: As barbaric as this sounds, its pretty much human nature.

There will always be issues with having opposite sex "friends".

Eric is gay or is one of those super nice guys that's always being there for her and thinking, eventually it'll be his turn haha

Anyway, guys, control yourselves. Borrow a line from one of Leah's dates, just paint the ceiling white once or twice before you go out and meet the chick. It'll calm you and the urge won't be there. :rofl:

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Originally posted by max_boost
Eric is gay or is one of those super nice guys that's always being there for her and thinking, eventually it'll be his turn haha

Anyway, guys, control yourselves. Borrow a line from one of Leah's dates, just paint the ceiling white once or twice before you go out and meet the chick. It'll calm you and the urge won't be there. :rofl:

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