One month anniversary

[Speed_69]

Do you guys celebrate your one month in your relationships?

I personally don't think it's all that special but the gf seems pretty excited for it so what's something relatively inexpensive i could get her? and/or do for her?

please leave the dirty jokes/ideas out
and we can leave out the comments about being break-up season haha

thanks

[shakalaka]

Umm just go out for a dinner or something man! What else can you do? Go for a dinner at her fav. place! Buy her flowers!

[Impreza]

Don't spoil her too much. She'll learn to expect it rather than appreciate it. Just go out for dinner!

[QuasarCav]

Flowers are only $3 at superstore, dont get her the pricey ones or she will expect it.

[Hamann]

Flowers and Dinner, just go to Red Lobster or something, somewhere nice but not crazy expensive.

[canadian_hustla]

Originally posted by Impreza
Don't spoil her too much. She'll learn to expect it rather than appreciate it. Just go out for dinner!

absolutely true, this is one of those things you have to have done in the past to realize you would regret it heavily in the future



plus it makes it very hard to outdo yourself for the next anniv.

[SOAB]

1 Month? don't do shit or she'll expect it every month...

[DeeK]

1 Month is nothing, hardly worth celebrating. If you HAVE to do something just take her for dinner somewhere.

Nothing shows you care quite like a happy meal. You get a free toy and a garantee to get laid that night, what could be sweeter?

[FatboyTheHungry]

You must wean the GF from expecting to celebrate everything... If she expect too much in the future, you will just be made out to be the bad guy for forgetting ridiculous things like the 1 year, 3 month, 2 week anniversary...
That was where I went wrong with the LAST ex-GF... She expected presents for everything, and wasn't shy about voicing her opinion about what her gift expectations were..

[rony_espana]

Originally posted by SOAB
1 Month? don't do shit or she'll expect it every month...

But then again I don't even celebrate our wedding anniversary

[DeeK]

Originally posted by FatboyTheHungry
You must wean the GF from expecting to celebrate everything... If she expect too much in the future, you will just be made out to be the bad guy for forgetting ridiculous things like the 1 year, 3 month, 2 week anniversary...
That was where I went wrong with the LAST ex-GF... She expected presents for everything, and wasn't shy about voicing her opinion about what her gift expectations were..

I had a girl like that a long time ago.. (in a galaxy far far away..)
she told me that it was our 1 week anniversary and that she expected something, I was like uhh.. whatever and got her something super cheap. a week later shes all pissed at me.. I ask her whats up. "YOU FORGOT OUR 2 WEEK ANNIVERSARY".
My exact response was "Fuck off." lol... I still remember the look on her face.. that was great.

[kaput]

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[DeeK]

^^ Exactly... These girls celebrate these anniversaries only because its usually about as far as they get... It's a LONG time for them.

[Eleanor]

Originally posted by FatboyTheHungry
You must wean the GF from expecting to celebrate everything... If she expect too much in the future, you will just be made out to be the bad guy for forgetting ridiculous things like the 1 year, 3 month, 2 week anniversary...
That was where I went wrong with the LAST ex-GF... She expected presents for everything, and wasn't shy about voicing her opinion about what her gift expectations were..

If you have a girl like that, say good-bye ASAP.

Originally posted by DeeK

I had a girl like that a long time ago.. (in a galaxy far far away..)
she told me that it was our 1 week anniversary and that she expected something, I was like uhh.. whatever and got her something super cheap. a week later shes all pissed at me.. I ask her whats up. "YOU FORGOT OUR 2 WEEK ANNIVERSARY".
My exact response was "Fuck off." lol... I still remember the look on her face.. that was great.

Good on you man, you can't put up with crap like that.

[RSeXy]

One month anniversary? You or her must be in jr. high or high school. Just go out for dinner, like joey's or red lobster. You can buy her a cd or make her one. When I was in grade school a one month anniversary was a big deal among like, all the girls! But we usually got home made cds or a single rose and that was that. Sweet and simple! (waits for MB's response... )

[abyss]

I vote for don't do anything. No expectations, no dissapointments.

[Melinda]

For one month? Haha give her a hug and tell her that she's pretty

At 6 months, there's a little more reason to celebrate, maybe a nice dinner and a rose. I dont think it's worth making a huge deal out of until you hit the year mark and each year after.

[~Leah~]

People actually keep track of this stuff? I never know what day of the month or day of the week I start dating someone. I'm lucky if I have a general idea of it. Who's keeping score really? Does it matter if you're happy together? I just throw out a surprise now and then for a boyfriend, never for any specific occasion or anything, just because I like to. Getaway weekends to the mountains, surprise road trips to their place (long distance), etc...

[Lo)2enz0]

is your girlfriend 16???

just take her out to somewehere cheap for dinner don't spend more than $30 on dinner. than bring her home to a movie or for a walk. When you hit 1 year thats when you spend the cash to make it special. i know my girlfriend is going to be expecting something in august but we didn't start going out till decemeber soo wa ha ha ha

but ya, 1 month means shit don't make a big deal.

[asuth077]

If you like her, and since she apparantly cares about, do something. But just a dinner or cheap flowers then make sure during the dinner you point out the next time you will celebrate something.

For eg. "Wow this is nice, best month ever, can't wait for our ONE YEAR." Drop the hint a few times and make she knows you aren't celebrating every full moon you share together.