Originally posted by kaput
I think engagement rings are just as lame. If you want to mark her as your own just pee on her. Its such a waste of money, like valentines day et al. are made up by the card companies, women are conspiring to get as much as they can out of us. If you need to bribe her to stay with you with a ring then she probably isn't worth keeping.
QFT!!
Why commercialized holidays, that's just another can of worms though
OP: Has she asked for a promise ring or hinted toward it? It could be her test to you.. Remember that.
"The most merciful thing in the world, I think, is the inability of the human mind to correlate all its contents... some day the piecing together of dissociated knowledge will open up such terrifying vistas of reality, and of our frightful position therein, that we shall either go mad from the revelation or flee from the light into the peace and safety of a new Dark Age."
-H.P. Lovecraft