I went through the same thing in my townhome. They asked me to take down my dish, which was installed beautifully, and out of sight.
I agreed to take it down, but asked that they reconsider the bylaw. I told them dish installations should be subject to approval, and installed properly to make sure there aren't leaks, or dishes falling of the roof during a violent windstorm (the two issues they seemed to be most concerned about). They mumbled something about it being expensive to amend bylaws, etc.
Anyways, end result, I bought a nice decorative planter from home depot, stood a fence post in the middle (reaching just over the top of the planeter), and filled it with cement.
The satellite sat attached to this on my patio for a few months, while the board tried to figure out a way to deal with it. Their next approach was that I wasn't allowed to have coax cable entering from outside the unit through my vents.
My solution for that was to buy 'flat coax' and run it under my patio door. Nothing they could do about that.
I used to have a travel thread on Beyond. I used to be somebody.