So how long?
I just took this girl out and she kept talking and talking. 2 Hours+ on a lunch date?
Jesus.
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How long should a first date last?
So how long?
I just took this girl out and she kept talking and talking. 2 Hours+ on a lunch date?
Jesus.
"The most merciful thing in the world, I think, is the inability of the human mind to correlate all its contents... some day the piecing together of dissociated knowledge will open up such terrifying vistas of reality, and of our frightful position therein, that we shall either go mad from the revelation or flee from the light into the peace and safety of a new Dark Age."
-H.P. Lovecraft
Haha, thats a good sign actually.
Ive been on first dates that lasted 4+ hours.
I say the longer the better, shows that shes interested and you can take it from there.
It would be a pretty shitty first date if she hung out for 30 minutes and bailed..
just my 0.02 cents
What kind of birdhouse can you build with popsicles, roofies, and a rubber mallet?
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If you were straight I'd eat you like a BLT sandwich with extra Bacon. And I fucking LOVE bacon.
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Werd. Longer the better
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Until the next morning!
*High five!*
I think long dates are a good sign that you're getting along, but short dates can be good too if you don't know each other very well. Then you don't miss out on a whole night if the date sucks, and if it's good, chances are there will be another date.
Last edited by Hakkola; 03-21-2009 at 05:15 PM.
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Haha as long as it takes to at least make out on the first date.
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Bad ones last as long as you can stand it. Good ones should last until the next day if she is a naughty one, otherwise it ends with a primo make out session at her door step or in your car when you drop her off.
Done both, none were sustainable over time though.
Dating sucks.
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Depends how "prepped" you are before you go.
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QFT.Originally posted by MoDo27
Dating sucks.
Yeah, we got along good. I didn't talk to much, it was maybe a 70/30 split her/me.
Definitely a second date in the works.
This is where it gets tricky, after the second date any chances of FTF get pretty slim. Gotta seal the deal
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Re: How long should a first date last?
Originally posted by Darkane
So how long?
I just took this girl out and she kept talking and talking. 2 Hours+ on a lunch date?
Jesus.
she talked for a while because she has some interest
good luck if your annoyed already
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* High five!*Originally posted by Hakkola
*High five!*
Dudes left you hanging, so I figured I'd help a brother out.
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First date should be quick and simple IMO. Going out for coffee is always good because its pretty casual and you can make plans for a second date from there. Or if you're not interested its easy to bail when you're coffee is done without looking like an asshole...
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Yea last time you were over at my place for like 3+ hours or something like that.Originally posted by LadyLuck
Haha, thats a good sign actually.
Ive been on first dates that lasted 4+ hours.
I say the longer the better, shows that shes interested and you can take it from there.
It would be a pretty shitty first date if she hung out for 30 minutes and bailed..
just my 0.02 cents
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Go watch "hes just not that into you" its a good flick for the OP to watch.
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Her talking too much is better than her not saying anything at all... The awkward silence is definitely a date killer, lol.
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I would love to meet a girl that could talk about herself, not useless boring shit, but actually talk ABOUT herself (interests, hobbies, her views on whatever).Originally posted by Cooked Rice
Her talking too much is better than her not saying anything at all... The awkward silence is definitely a date killer, lol.I don't mind listening at all, and I would say that if she wants to talk to you that long, you definitly have something going.
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Unless she views you as a sister tho, or what if you're getting F-zoned.Originally posted by HiTempguy1
if she wants to talk to you that long, you definitly have something going.
Sorry OP, got to throw the possiblities out there.
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Re: How long should a first date last?
A lunch date isnt even considered a date. A day date eliminates almost every chance of getting laid at the end.Originally posted by Darkane
So how long?
I just took this girl out and she kept talking and talking. 2 Hours+ on a lunch date?
Jesus.
Make it an evening date if you want anything to happen.
Hope your not in the friend zone yet.
Who knows...next time I may double that timeOriginally posted by TomcoPDR
Yea last time you were over at my place for like 3+ hours or something like that.
What kind of birdhouse can you build with popsicles, roofies, and a rubber mallet?
"It's for a rare African bird called "none your business."Originally posted by JRSC00LUDE
If you were straight I'd eat you like a BLT sandwich with extra Bacon. And I fucking LOVE bacon.
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talking? wtf? chloroform takes care of that problem for me.
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The worst is when they keep talking and talking liek that..
About what?
NOTHING!! (..that i care about anyways)
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Lol, this thread is going exactly where I wanted it too
Good responses thus far. I met her at the bar the week before, she punched me in the face twice. But we hit it off anyway ha.
What the fuck is wrong with some women? Two this year so far who wanna ruin my good looks.
See if anybody gets that pun.
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