is "sexting" cheating?

[Weapon_R]

Originally posted by ekguy
I'd freak out if my gf did something like that. So I wouldn't do it either. It's cheating.

I coulda sworn that it happened to you...and you didn't care

[JfuckinC]

Originally posted by Weapon_R


I coulda sworn that it happened to you...and you didn't care

for sure

[Splooge]

it's pre-meditated cheating...

[Manhattan]

How and why did your bro start texting some random chick he's never met and supposedly can't meet in the first place???

There's different degrees of cheating. Some chicks consider flirting to be a form of cheating. Nothing in a relationship is ever black and white. But I'd definitely consider texting dirty messages to another chick to be pretty high on that scale when you have a wife.

[TKRIS]

IMO, cheating is less about what physical parts of you/her touch what, and more about deceit, disrespect, and a violation of trust. And this certainly encompasses all the above.

Also, sexting? Fucking really? That's the lamest, saddest, most pathetic, sackless thing I think I've ever heard.
Grow the fuck up.

[snoop101]

If you cant do it with your wife then its cheating. So another words you can goto the strip joint and watch porn with your wife and thats fine. If you went alone it would still be fine. Now for this I can see your wife/fiance/gf sitting down and texting dirty things to another woman. If she is into that then its a whole new ball game.

[dandia89]

if you do shit that you wouldn't want your wife to see, then it definitely isn't something you should do

[speeed]

Originally posted by Manhattan
How and why did your bro start texting some random chick he's never met and supposedly can't meet in the first place???

This. How did he start texting dirty with a random in the first place?

So much for him showing his commitment towards her especially since they're married. He deserves whatever she plans to do with him imo.

[beyond_ban]

Before i do something with possible consequences i always analyze the risk vs. reward. In this case, i have no idea what the fuck he is thinking. Why would you risk your relationship with your fucking WIFE, just so you can have written sex with someone? Not only does it sound terrible boring, but it also makes the guy sound like he's a grade 8 virgin. That has to be one of the most retarded things i have heard of in a while, other then 89coupe's poker skills.

[CMW403]

Originally posted by speeed

This. How did he start texting dirty with a random in the first place?

So much for him showing his commitment towards her especially since they're married. He deserves whatever she plans to do with him imo.

yeah, i agree. what a retarded way to ruin a relationship. his girlfriend probably started laughing before she was mad. thats fucking sad

[ringer]

Cheating for sure.

How isn't that cheating, you're building a sexual relationship with some other broad?
You're telling her things you want to do with her sexually and she is doing the same, you are imagining and wanting to have sexual feelings with someone other than your wife.
People like that shouldn't get married they don't understand the commitment.

Grow up and be a man.

[Masked Bandit]

It's cheating. No further explanantion needed.

[darkkent]

if you can't do it with your spouse sitting right beside you, you shouldn't be doing it

happy wife = happy life

[G]

Originally posted by darkkent
if you can't do it with your spouse sitting right beside you, you shouldn't be doing it

happy wife = happy life

holy shit

[beyond_ban]

Originally posted by darkkent
if you can't do it with your spouse sitting right beside you, you shouldn't be doing it

happy wife = happy life

I bet your back is pretty striped up from all those lashes of your wifeys whip. Sure i dont believe in being a cheating bastard, BUT here are some things the wife doesn't need to know about based on the fact that she would blow it WAY out of proportion.

(purely based on ex-girlfriends, as i sure as hell am not getting married till I'm 40)

[Seanith]

Originally posted by darkkent
if you can't do it with your spouse sitting right beside you, you shouldn't be doing it

happy wife = happy life

Best toss Modern Warfare 2 out the window!

OP, I'd definitely consider it something you wouldn't to do. It's definitely betraying the wife's trust, even though its not "cheating" in a traditional sense. Hardly seems like its worth it

[ekguy]

Originally posted by Weapon_R


I coulda sworn that it happened to you...and you didn't care

that was just some dumb bitch I was fucking for a year. Thought it was more at some point but realized there isn't really much future with a 35 year old psycho bitch haha. She saw me the other day with my new gf which is much and I mean MUCH younger and definitely a hell of a lot cuter. It was a moment I will remember forever haha. The look on her face was pure hatred for me and Laura hahaha.

edited to add I also did alot of shit behind her back. Never cheated...Well unless partying for 3 days with some chick I bartended with constitutes cheating hehe.

I'm definitely a different person with my gf now than how I was with my ex'es. Guess that happens when you find someone you'd like to settle down with.

Also any sexting, dirty texting or whatever is cheating.

[Masked Bandit]

Originally posted by darkkent
if you can't do it with your spouse sitting right beside you, you shouldn't be doing it

happy wife = happy life

All these guys beakin' off about being whipped.....no way. Talk to anyone who's been married for more than 10 minutes (especially when you throw kids in there) and you'll see that this man speaks the truth.

[G]

Originally posted by Masked Bandit



All these guys beakin' off about being whipped.....no way. Talk to anyone who's been married for more than 10 minutes (especially when you throw kids in there) and you'll see that this man speaks the truth.

I'm married for 6+ years with one child. I don't have to put my wife on a pedestal and worship the ground she walks on. I'm do not fear her nor she does me. It is all about mutual respect.

[nj2Type-S]

"sexting" lol. wtf? you may as well call a phone sex line! it'd probably be a lot more entertaining than "sexting".