Ran into old High School crush

[adidas]

After further analysis, OP i think you need to grow some pubes. Heard rogaine works down there to speed up the growth.

[Jeremiah]

Give me her number I'll piitb for you and let you know if it was worth it after all these years

[Feruk]

Sounds like you're golden dude! Take her out, go do something fun. You don't have to "make it clear" that it's a date. She'll get them message when you're PIITB while waiting for your spring roll appetizer to come out.

[Unknown303]

I love when threads make it 3 pages deep with no reply from the OP.

[revelations]

Perhaps OP has a job where he doesent have internet access all day.

[CUG]

Why is everyone just looking to get their ejaculate on? Is there no love, kindness, and care in the world? Too much ejaculating, not enough love.

[msommers]

Funny I just went through this a few weeks ago. Well we've been fairly close for 3 years and quite honestly despite me liking her I really viewed her as a good friend. I took her to my christmas party and something changed that night between us, or so I thought. I waited a few days thinking about it and went for it. She just wants to be friends. We don't talk much at all now.

But really, my mentality hasn't changed. It's better to know than sit and wonder. Life is too short to sit and think about something you can very easily find the answer(s) to.

Go for it.

[Graham_A_M]

Originally posted by revelations
Perhaps OP has a job where he doesent have internet access all day.

Its because he doesn't like the responses here.

I think most people would fade away after being called the spineless pussy he has been in this thread.

[Redlyne_mr2]

Talk about over analyzing, just go for it man. If you end up acting like you are you'll loose her again forever, man up and make your move.

[C_Dave45]

OP:




And for the serious replies to this thread:

[Kloubek]

So you didn't see her for 6 years. And you survived fine without her. If you reveal your intentions to her and she denies you, then you just don't see her for another 6 years or more.... nothing lost, really.

So just grow a pair and give it a shot. Worst she can do is say she just wants to be friends, then things get awkward, and you lose touch with her again. Best that can happen is you two fall in love, get married, have kids and die old together. Seems like a worthwhile risk...

[CUG]

Originally posted by C_Dave45
OP:
And for the serious replies to this thread:
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We need a clearer definition of what a troll is. Trolling, to me, is fully intentional with outrage and impassioned responses as the desired outcome. It seems the OP isn't trolling, they just aren't clear on how to approach women..

[QuasarCav]

Originally posted by Kloubek
So you didn't see her for 6 years. And you survived fine without her. If you reveal your intentions to her and she denies you, then you just don't see her for another 6 years or more.... nothing lost, really.

So just grow a pair and give it a shot. Worst she can do is say she just wants to be friends, then things get awkward, and you lose touch with her again. Best that can happen is you two fall in love, get married, have kids and die old together. Seems like a worthwhile risk...

Obviously he wasn't wearing his WWKD bracelet during the encounter.

[ForeverZ]

Wow 3 pages?!? classes are about to start up again on Monday, so my time is booked tight by people i haven't seen since September.

About the facebook thing... Already crossed my mind many moons ago, she doesn't have one, we talked about it yesterday, she doesn't "believe in it". Thats why i figure it was safe for me to post this on beyond, cuz i highly doubt she has an account.

She's always been the type thats really picky with the people she associates with, and for some strange reason i've always made the cut =D haha, Its one of the contributing factors of why i just assumed she was single. She's actually very pretty, she's in a sports team so she's athletic and therefore a great body. Blue eyes, Long wavy blond hair that always seems to always have some other accenting colour from those girly hair accessory things.

In High school, she's always the smart one that pushes and motivates me to get my school work done, and ironicly, me the lazy one is taking ENGG, while she the "smart" one is casually taking Art classes at ACAD cuz she just "Loves it!"

As for the whole "pour your heart out" advice... I've learned that if you do it too early, no matter how much the girl likes you, she will either get scared off or lose interest. I've done that twice and both times same results therefore i conclude my theory holds water.

As for pictures... only have a few that i can dig out and all of them are kinda oddly timed,

[l/l/rX]

approved.

best of luck!

[Kloubek]

No man... how much of your heart do you really have to "pour out" when you haven't seen her for 6 years?

Just ask her out. Simple. Don't overcomplicate it.

You honestly sound a lot like I did 10-15 years ago... not so good with the ladies. The sooner you adopt a "who gives a shit" attitude, the more tail you're gonna get.

[CUG]

^ that is not a girl you be afraid of brothaman. You need to get up on that before she decides to go into her alcoholic phase.

Originally posted by Kloubek

You honestly sound a lot like I did 10-15 years ago... not so good with the ladies. The sooner you adopt a "who gives a shit" attitude, the more tail you're gonna get.

Lol preach it. Been there. No better advice in this thread.

[Freeskier]

Kloubek's got it.

[Feruk]

Definitely ask her out OP. Total agreement on just the casual and see where it goes.

Originally posted by Kloubek
You honestly sound a lot like I did 10-15 years ago... not so good with the ladies. The sooner you adopt a "who gives a shit" attitude, the more tail you're gonna get.

Clearly everyone on Beyond is a pimp.

[max_boost]

Originally posted by Kloubek
No man... how much of your heart do you really have to "pour out" when you haven't seen her for 6 years?

Just ask her out. Simple. Don't overcomplicate it.

You honestly sound a lot like I did 10-15 years ago... not so good with the ladies. The sooner you adopt a "who gives a shit" attitude, the more tail you're gonna get.

Just one of those things that come with experience I suppose. Some people get it, some people take longer and some people just never will.