A few things you need to know if you have someone close to you with schizophrenia. What I write is from experience, I have a very close friend with schizophrenia.
1 Schizophrenia is different from multiple personality disorder, although someone with schizophrenia could have multiple personality disorder they are two different things. So ignore the people that tell you to look behind you, or ask your other self... these people watch too much TV and are easy to follow others instead of doing the research themselves.
2 You’ll want to watch “A beautiful mind” watch it once now and watch it again after you’ve been exposed to the person for a year or so, you’ll see it in a whole new light.
3 Don’t concentrate on what the person says but on how they’re saying it. So my friend will tell me she wants to end her life, I won’t take her to the hospital unless she has a certain tone in her voice and has displayed other signs. Although if you’re not sure it’s best to visit the emergency room. You’ll understand after a while.
4 I try to document as much as possible, it makes for great reading down the road and I’ve noticed a pattern in the behaviour. This really helps in preparing things for when I need to take her to the hospital I’ve got it down to a science as to what date she’ll be admitted based on how she talks and what she does.
5 I’ve learned that it’s not exactly the way it’s written in the books, some things are correct for my friend but most are not.
6 This may sound funny but enjoy the experience and find the good things in it. I always turn the TV off, grab a cup of tea, give my full undivided attention and prepare for a very interesting story when she calls me by my “code name”. You’ll never find this stuff anywhere but in her mind.
7 Trust is a big thing. They need to know they can trust you, so if they tell you not to say anything to anyone then don’t! Unless it has to do with hurting someone
As already stated, there are different types of schizophrenia and although I’m no doctor I believe there are different degrees too. So some end up in the hospital for a few weeks and others for a few months, with or without their meds.
To put it into as few words as possible. If you asked me what I thought it is like for my friend when she is in full blow psychosis? I would say it's like dreaming while you're awake. So imagin the dream you had last night happened right now and you acted and talked as if it was reality, and when you say I can't remember this part or that part of the dream, that becomes part of the process...
Three of my favourite:
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(so tight that my hands went numb in minutes and a have bruises, infact my hands are still numb, 2 hours later)
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I now feel like I went into shock. I started breathing heavily and lost my sense of what was going on.