Originally posted by Sugarphreak
So you aren’t concerned that cheating, tricking and offering undesirable ultimatums to young kids isn't going to mess them up more than physical disipline in the long run I take it?
I'd argue that a slap to the bum is simple, understood and direct... kids themselves are very physical when it comes to displaying emotions and expressing themselves. Playing mind games and using advanced physiology on the other hand could lead to a much more mentally messed up and resentful child with skewed views on how the world really works... probably end up trolling forums with elitist fringe ideology or something.
I think it's a valid argument that you can cause severe emotional harm to a child by verbal abuse and manipulation.
I'm not advocating emotional manipulation or physical force. I'm advocating intelligent and rational communication with children and a connection that allows you to understand the underlying reason for their behavior so you can understand and work with them to find a solution rather than using force to get them to merely obey you.
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