Yeah this.^ Thats the biggest issue right there. I usually have to take the time to explain the fundamentals of mimicking what I do on the bike. Obviously I'd NEVER do amazingly stupid shit like put my knee down; leave alone expect her to (if thats even possible) but I do let them know; when I lean, lean with me. Dont try to "balance it out" by leaning the opposite way (yes I've had girls do that).
On a sportbike; the biggest favor I can (as a guy) do for your "junk" would be this bit of advice:
Tell the girl to keep her hands around your waist, unless when you're braking. When you are about to brake; ease into it so she'll know to take her hands off your waist and put her hands on the back of the tank to hold her weight as you slow down.
^ Make sure you tell her this.
Most chicks dont even think of this at all, and keep holding on the same way (around your waist) regardless; not even thinking of exactly whats bearing the whole weight of not only your lower torso but all of her weight as well. Meanwhile braking (leave alone sudden braking) becomes enormously uncomfortable.
I always take it really easy. Especially when she's never been on a bike before. With all of no-seat behind her; I can see how terrifying it must be riding behind some idiot trying to "impress her".
I had a buddy do exactly this and wonder why all his GF's were suddenly paranoid about bikes after a short ride with him.
But anyway, take it easy, and understand that there is all of 2" of real estate space right behind her ass, so ride accordingly, and be extra safe. Consider it like "driving miss Daisy" and I've never had a problem ever.... no matter how afraid some of them initially were.
If you ride comfortably and consistently, not doing anything remotely stupid then they really begin to relax and not mind being on the back of the bike at all.
EDIT: Oh yeah and one more thing; always take into account that the girl may not have a clue as to what to do VS. what NOT to do as a passenger. That whole "counter-lean" thing I mentioned earlier happened half way around a clover leaf. Needless to say: I was quite glad I was riding WELL within my comfort zone to be able to properly react before telling her how bad of an idea that was.
Last edited by Graham_A_M; 01-31-2012 at 10:06 PM.
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