It would appear that a trade type of career for 89coupe's daughter is not in the cards as the question had been posed to him at least twice in this thread with no direct responses that would indicate that would be acceptable.
So moving on, if a degree is what 89coupe and his wife wish for their daughter to have, then good on them - it's their plan and hopefully it works out for them. My youngest, also a 14 year old girl, does not have her life mapped out in such a fashion as did neither of our boys, now 18 and almost 21. The boys are both at the UofC full time on half sports scholarships, but they chose their paths on their own. Yes, we provided advice, but as they are funding their own schooling then it is their choice in what they do - no different then both of their parents. The only difference is that they have free room and board as long as they are in school full time - quit school and expect to pay to live at home, after all they are adults. Do we hover over them now - not really although it is expected that they still contribute to keeping the house clean and not waking Mom and Dad up at 3 or 4 in the morning when they come home. Not too much to ask.
So if my daughter decides to go to SAIT to become a plumber, then so be it. We will provide as much as we can as to the pros and cons of such a career path and let her go from there - know a number of plumbers who are doing quite well and the world will certainly never lack a need for them. UofC or UofA on a sports scholarship - probably very doable for her through wrestling although I wouldn't want her to make a career decision based upon some funding, what she thinks she desires should be the first thing to be considered.
To 89coupe, parenting is something one never stops learning to do and it's an ever evolving target - three kids has very much shown that to be the case. Just be there for your daughter if she decides her path in life is not going to be that which you and your wife had envisioned.