So my aging inlaws live in Calgary and my wife is chinese canadian - I am NZ european. In NZ we have a firm understanding that your parents should be able to look after themselves or the govt will give them enough to pay the bills on their mortgage free house.
My wife thinks she will have to look after her parents because they have no savings, no rrsp or little rrsp (20k) however she cant stand living with her mom, her father is ok. The parents live together but arent really together (strange situation).
They currently have a house in Edmonton, We asked 2 years ago if we could sell their house and move them into a condo in Edmonton using the money from the sale to buy most or all of a condo.
Now shes thinking we should buy them a condo in Calgary but that would mean taking on a 2nd mortgage and condo fees and diverting a portion of our savings / retirement income to support them.
What have other beyonders done to help their parents when they retire if they cannot help themselves?