Firstly, a preamble: I know this has an opportunity to turn into a text version of that “roast me” game. I expect nothing less when I open myself up and show my vulnerability. However, I’m hoping that in addition to the haters and chirping, there can be some honest advice. I know beyond is full of smart and helpful people.
My situation: I didn’t get a big severance when I was laid off, and I haven’t drawn a regular salary in two years. My wife works, and I have savings from before, so I’m not in danger of starving or having to send my kids to school barefoot, but yeah, money is tighter every month, and some expenditures are getting deferred longer than I’d like. However, far beyond financial concerns, I’ve learned that unemployment is really hard on me mentally. I’m working a short-term contract in what is objectively a pretty terrible job, and it’s been awesome for my mental health. I really need a job to be healthy, even if it’s at 1/3 of my old oil and gas salary.
I am running a small business, and we’ve seen some success, but it’s not enough work to keep me busy, and on a net basis, I’ve been losing money. I would love that to grow into something real, but I need a backup plan.
The real thread:
I believe that every personal attribute has a positive and negative connotation depending on the situation you find yourself in. I also believe that when you are in a job that fits you well, your innate attributes will mostly be positives for that position without you having to work against your instincts. Not to say that in the “right” job everything comes easy, but that when you work hard you will see good results. I’ve had this experience in my career, and some of the “hardest” jobs I’ve had were the best for me, and honestly weren’t “hardest” for me.
What I’m looking for is ideas for careers that make good use of the talents that I have. I don’t think any one of these is particularly unique, but I believe that the combination is something valuable in the right situation.
- Love teamwork and truly motivated by team success. If my actions help the team, I’m probably going to pour my heart into it. If it’s just working towards an individual goal or personal recognition, I’m likely to become uninterested in it much sooner
- Excellent delegator. I don’t find it cumbersome to keep track of tasks being performed by other members of the team and seeing how they will integrate with my own work towards the larger goals.
- I’m an above average public speaker. I’m comfortable doing presentations to management or putting on training courses for 20+ students. I wouldn’t say I LOVE this, but as long as I know the material and I have a plan, I can do a pretty decent job of presenting to pretty much anyone.
- Clear and effective business writing. I really get a kick out of summarizing complex situations into concise status reports, emails or reports.
- I truly enjoy understanding and improving business processes. Have frequently been asked to deliver process documentation for informal business tasks that has resulted in improved efficiency and clarified expectations for team members.
- Engineering degree and enjoy understanding the underlying physics or mechanical workings of a problem. Often have used this perspective to work with field staff to design workable solutions to complex problems. Also helps when explaining situations to more junior or less technical staff.
- Friendly, approachable and likeable. I know everyone would say this, but I’m at least a little above average in this regard. Rarely have problems with co-workers disliking me, or trying to work against me.
- I’m a pretty good manager. I don’t have tons of experience as a manager, but I have managed teams up to five people and projects of more than $50 million. One of my direct reports who has been in the business for 35 years told me I was the best boss he ever had. I love discovering how a group of people fit together to make something more valuable than the sum of the parts.
- I like to have contact with the “front line” people making the business happen. Weather that’s truck drivers, drill rig crew, or guys washing cars, I love that connection to the real activity. I’m not one who can be happy hiding in spreadsheets for months on end.
- I’m also comfortable with large volumes of data, interpreting complex datasets, and giving a reality check to computer generated trends or averages.
So, as I said, I’d like idea for careers that make use of these attributes. Maybe that involves going back to school or starting out at the bottom in a new industry. I’m open to that.