Should I dump my girl?

[revelations]

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When done dating settle down with a down to earth farm girl that isn’t afraid of the city.

Profit.

This is exactly what I did. An absolute keeper.

[J-hop]

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When done dating settle down with a down to earth farm girl that isn’t afraid of the city.

Profit.

I think you’d be sadly surprised at how many guys actually like high maintenance girls with their heads in the clouds.

I agree with you though. And my personal advice is find someone as similar to you as you can.

As I’m entering true adulthood I’ve realized the old saying “opposites attract” although maybe has some truth to it is actually horrible advice. The number of guys I’ve seen who settle down and end up compromising many things that used to bring them a lot of joy because their spouse doesn’t share the same interests is ridiculous.

[Sentry]

Chinese girl would rather cry in a mercedes than laugh on a bicycle.

[Skyline_Addict]

Peace the fuck out!

[tcon]

She seems to think she'll eventually be making more than me in the next few years, this has come up a few times where she said she would leave me if she did start to make more or that she couldn't be with a man that made less than her.

WTF...

[Seth1968]

OR to all of this, stay single.

You'll avoid all the BS, and you don't have to change who you are.

[TomcoPDR]

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Send her my way. I need a project but first, pics.

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All of you were quite close, but she's actually from China

@rage2 Would be interesting if there was a gf swap section, make guys realize their gf isn’t/is as crazy as another.

[Buster]

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hahaha there's so much awesome in this post



A friend of mine has a Filipino nanny and she was complaining to her nanny one day about her job and the nanny (who hadn't been back to the Philippines or seen her children in 14 years) replied by saying she found out her husband was fooling around back home and if she went back to divorce him, she'd be murdered because she'd be no more use to him if the gravy train stopped, so she was stressing about how to get her kids to Canada and get rid of the husband. Totally shitty situation for the nanny, but I had to laugh so hard at my friend. That shut her up pretty quickly

We actively avoided the Filipino nanny this time around.

1. no more Filipino Nanny mafia
2. I'm too lazy and uncaring to hear about the stories. Our cleaning lady is Filipino. She's great. But don't think I could take it 5 days a week,
3. We always found that Filipino nannies are trained to keep the parents happy, rather than focus on the values of the kids. (Clean house, good food trumps kids activities/educations/etc).

[J-hop]

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@rage2 Would be interesting if there was a gf swap section, make guys realize their gf isn’t/is as crazy as another.

Do you mean story swap or actual swap haha.

[ExtraSlow]

Yeah, Philippines nanny system certainly trains them a very specific way. Ever met philipino teens? Like fuck I want me kids to act like that.

[JordanEG6]

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Yeah, Philippines nanny system certainly trains them a very specific way. Ever met philipino teens? Like fuck I want me kids to act like that.

Then you should hit your kids

[flipstah]

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then you should hit your kids

fear the flip flops!

[Shlade]

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OR to all of this, stay single.

You'll avoid all the BS, and you don't have to change who you are.

But first, go get snipped before any oopsies happen with random chicks haha

[TomcoPDR]

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Do you mean story swap or actual swap haha.

Either or

[jaylo]

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Chinese girl would rather cry in a mercedes than laugh on a bicycle.

I once did a gag gift to my ex-Chinese gf a small boombox and I wrapped it her face was priceless when she opened it in front of her family.

Needless to say, she got that LV bag she was hoping to get in return.

[eblend]

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Where do you go to date Japanese girls in Calgary?... asking for a friend...

Not too many around unfortunately, as previously stated, they aren't escaping a terrible country by any stretch of imagination, so those who end up here are fed up with 24/7 work schedule with no vacations, because otherwise, Canada is third world to them technologically in almost every single way haha. As I have an option of working in Japan, I have considered moving there a few times, but I like my vacations way too much, and couldn't possibly spend 18 hours a day with co-workers, either working super late or going out for drinks nightly.

[nzwasp]

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We actively avoided the Filipino nanny this time around.

1. no more Filipino Nanny mafia
2. I'm too lazy and uncaring to hear about the stories. Our cleaning lady is Filipino. She's great. But don't think I could take it 5 days a week,
3. We always found that Filipino nannies are trained to keep the parents happy, rather than focus on the values of the kids. (Clean house, good food trumps kids activities/educations/etc).

Whats the Filipino nanny mafia?

We have a Filipino nanny currently but shes fucking pregnant (already was 3 months pregnant when we hired her) - just hid it until a month later, so on the lookout for a new one.

[NissanFanBoy]

Grew up in Van, my first gf was a Jap fob girl only in Canada to learn English, she definitely had $, and was not a gold digger and was really down to earth compared to the CBC girls I usually liked at the time...I don't have much experience or know much about their culture but they seem to be less about keeping up with the Jones' like in Chinese culture...oh and she also insisted on splitting bills on dates too and didn't dress to impress all the time. I recall that the Jap FOBs at that time didn't even have interest in cars, nice clothes, go to fancy clubs and fancy hoyty toyty stuff either...

[J-hop]

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I once did a gag gift to my ex-Chinese gf a small boombox and I wrapped it her face was priceless when she opened it in front of her family.

Needless to say, she got that LV bag she was hoping to get in return.

She asked for an LV bag? Get out while you still can man

[Darkane]

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I think you’d be sadly surprised at how many guys actually like high maintenance girls with their heads in the clouds.

I agree with you though. And my personal advice is find someone as similar to you as you can.

As I’m entering true adulthood I’ve realized the old saying “opposites attract” although maybe has some truth to it is actually horrible advice. The number of guys I’ve seen who settle down and end up compromising many things that used to bring them a lot of joy because their spouse doesn’t share the same interests is ridiculous.

Yeah. Finding someone with the same core values is key.

Little shit like cleaning up, toothpaste, toilet seats, stupid menial stuff can be partially trained (Habitually - Both sides). If the marriage lasts, with some happiness it's a success.

No woman is perfect, no couple is perfect. It just doesn't exist, people do fool themselves. Take the good with the bad, hopefully it's like 60/40 ratio lol.

Ultimately I've found it comes down to who was the boss in the house growing up. That's the kind of partner people migrate to.