Originally Posted by
J-hop
Brings up a good point. Live with the person before you marry them. I don’t think you can truly know someone or know how you’re going to work through life challenges together until you live with them, pay bills together and don’t have the ability to turn your phone off and go sulk at home every time you have a fight.
The archaic idea that you shouldn’t live with someone before marriage is just opening you up to deciding to spend the rest of your life with someone you Don’t enjoy living with.
I know a couple or two who got caught up in the fairy tale story and are now obviously unhappy with each other.
My Wife and I lived together for a few years before getting engaged and I think it was probably one of the best things we could have done. The idea of living together only once married is old and outdated. I would highly recommend living with the person prior to engagement/marriage!
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