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If she's falling or tripping over things, this means full time care. Do you or the wife work at home? Leaving her for 8-10hrs while you guys are working is not good cause it only takes a second to fall and smack her head on something, this is worse cause you have a 2 story house. If she's going to be alone for any amount of time get her one of those alert things to tell you she's fallen over and throw some IP cam's around the house. Some senior homes have a very long waiting list, several years sometimes so I would sign up asap and not in 3 months. The wife's grandma's family refused to send her to a home when she could of gotten in to an Asian one and at the end when the Dr. basically forced them to send her she ended up at this generic one where nobody spoke Cantonese. I've seen a couple of families try to deal with declining seniors. Rearranged the house removing any tripping hazards, installed stair lifts, handicap ramps, special beds, etc.... and the end result when everyone is physically and emotionally drained is always a seniors home and by that time they are pretty much gone already.