Live your best life with or without kids.
My best life right now means no kids.
My best life in 5 years might mean kids, who the hell knows. Life is so fkn unpredictable.
Leave Canada, live where it's cheap
Live in an RV, Cabin, or Boat
No Debts / >30K Year of Income
No Debts / >50K Year of Income
No Debts / >80K Year of Income
Make Due with Government Pension
Work until I die
Live your best life with or without kids.
My best life right now means no kids.
My best life in 5 years might mean kids, who the hell knows. Life is so fkn unpredictable.
I am user #49Originally posted by rage2
Shit, there's only 49 users here, I doubt we'll even break 100
Go defined benefit pension plan!!!
That's my plan
I hope you aren't friends with the people that think that stuff haha. More power to you if you don't think kids are right for you, and have chosen not to have them. That's very commendable.This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
Aren’t you too old for kids?This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
He's 21 in his heart.This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
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Some would say you're never too old.
After experiencing the difference between my first at last child, I would disagree. Shit's hard when you're young... I'm scared of the future holds hahaha
Legit I'm so scare at the thought of it
I am user #49Originally posted by rage2
Shit, there's only 49 users here, I doubt we'll even break 100
Bro I'm worried about kids too. They cost so much in time, energy, and money.
But that said, you have to have kids for the right reasons not just cause of social pressures. Alot of my friends had their first kid last couple years and I would say it's all worth it for them. We are basically like family so it has been awesome watching their kid grow up even though we're not there for every milestone. I think it's super cool to watch little humans develop, learn new things and have experiences that craft them into the people they'll become.
Just not worth it for me right now.
And that's the sad thing because we put way more thought into not having kids than my wife's sisters or my sister did about having kids...and yet our decisions where always questioned or challenged.This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
At least that all pretty much went away in our mid 30s.
Ya for sure. I'm an Uncle now as my sister has a 6 month old and it's super cool but still not for me, not right now lol but I hope to meet that one girl who has it together so she can push me over the Million club I guess I should change my dating paramaters as 18-24 won't do itThis quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
I am user #49Originally posted by rage2
Shit, there's only 49 users here, I doubt we'll even break 100
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I’m exhausted as hell at 31 yrs old with just a single 1.5 yr old. I couldn’t imagine dealing with babies into my 40s
Not everyone is a machine like 89coupe lol The dude gets more fit with age
I am user #49Originally posted by rage2
Shit, there's only 49 users here, I doubt we'll even break 100
If you wanted to help the world, you'd actually have some kids to raise the herds intelligence a point or two. Too many braindead slobs are having too many children, we need reinforcements!This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
The best way for us to keep population down, and ensure our survival is to enforce a one-child policy. That will surely work!
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People have been saying this since the beginning of history.This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
It's BS
We are far better off as a species right now, than at any time in history. By a long shot.
The world is fine. Ppl should worry more about whether their marriage is going to last as so many ppl are getting divorcedThis quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
I am user #49Originally posted by rage2
Shit, there's only 49 users here, I doubt we'll even break 100
Statistically speaking, literature shows that being in agreement in 4 aspects of life are predictors of a lasting marriage:
1. Religion
2. Money
3. Children, how to raise them and with which family values
4. Inlaws and how to deal with them
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You probably sum up pros and cons of having kids in 1 sentence.
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However, if there was an EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE chart of North America, I would argue that it is going down, probably not that quick though.This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
People definitely used to have/use more common sense/basic reasoning in the 80s and 90s.