Originally Posted by
killramos
FWIW I do like your posts on the topic, way more rational and informed than most. That doesn’t mean that I also don’t think you are exaggerating how much your wife works at least a little.
I’ve said it before but: My experience knowing lots of teachers, including my wife while she was doing it, is very different from yours in that while there are select busy times the 60-80 hour work weeks you are quoting are far from the norm and are in fact very rare. My wife worked a second 10-20 hour a week gig while teaching, and it certainly wasn’t back breaking nor was she at the school all day every weekend, actually I can’t think of a single time she ever went into the school on the weekend I’m not even sure she had access.
I don’t know how we can reconcile the two contrary points, all I can do is convey what I have experienced and my thoughts on the matter.
My “might as well take a day off” comment literally stemmed from something my wife said about a sub job she booked YESTERDAY. This shit happens and is definitely common, though it doesn’t really fit your narrative.