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    Quote Originally Posted by Rocket1k78 View Post
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    I would be all for a low tech device but then id be too worried shed get bullied for that, its brutal being a parent these days with all this social media crap. Fuck its brutal being an adult with all this social media crap....
    I pretend we are poor. If someone wants to bully my kid for being poor I like that better than her being on social media.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rocket1k78 View Post
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    I would be all for a low tech device but then id be too worried shed get bullied for that, its brutal being a parent these days with all this social media crap. Fuck its brutal being an adult with all this social media crap....
    Low tech, high tech, tight clothes, baggy clothes, fat, skinny, whatever.

    Correct me if I am wrong, but wouldn't the most important part is just to help your child feel confident about themselves? I know that part takes a lot of time, but ultimately if that core value is paramount, they will be able to get through it.
    Worrying about your kid getting bullied because they aren't keeping up with what is "cool" is just going to be an endless cycle and not really addressing the true solution that will help them long term.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CompletelyNumb View Post
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    3) kids being excluded from all social activities because they dont have an iphone and their class only talks via imessage
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    @rage2 you bully!
    So everyone has a working process for communications, and you want to come in and disrupt all that to accommodate yourself. Who's the real bully here?
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    Quote Originally Posted by rage2 View Post
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    So everyone has a working process for communications, and you want to come in and disrupt all that to accommodate yourself. Who's the real bully here?
    #bullythegreenbubbles

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    My kids have had no issues

    Daughter is finished school, never had issues, nor did she ever witness it.

    Son is in grade 5,
    He has never mentioned it.

    Both went to French immersion schools.

    Kids seem a lot more gentle these days, or maybe I’m only exposed to the kids my children hang around with.


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    Quote Originally Posted by 89coupe View Post
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    My kids have had no issues

    Daughter is finished school, never had issues, nor did she ever witness it.

    Son is in grade 5,
    He has never mentioned it.

    Both went to French immersion schools.

    Kids seem a lot more gentle these days, or maybe I’m only exposed to the kids my children hang around with.

    That is what I worry about as a parent. If my daughter never even witnessed anything like bullying, I would be concerned about how they can tackle life when things don't go as "ideal".

    I mean, what happens when one day a guy tries to take advantage of her with some pop?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Disoblige View Post
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    That is what I worry about as a parent. If my daughter never even witnessed anything like bullying, I would be concerned about how they can tackle life when things don't go as "ideal".

    I mean, what happens when one day a guy tries to take advantage of her with some pop?
    She calls Dad and he shows up and smacks his little bitch face and makes him say sorry.

    But thankfully she met an awesome guy, so all is good.
    Last edited by 89coupe; 03-01-2021 at 02:53 PM.

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    Sort of off topic, but there are kids being raised now that have no idea how to take criticism. One of my nieces quit her fast food job after some of what I consider very gentle coaching.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ExtraSlow View Post
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    Sort of off topic, but there are kids being raised now that have no idea how to take criticism. One of my nieces quit her fast food job after some of what I consider very gentle coaching.
    I agree, so many cream puffs being raised these days.

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    I mean, there were cream puffs back when we were kids too. Percentage has changed a bit I'm sure, and the world is easier for them to thrive in as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ExtraSlow View Post
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    Sort of off topic, but there are kids being raised now that have no idea how to take criticism. One of my nieces quit her fast food job after some of what I consider very gentle coaching.
    This is a very big thing now.

    Not only this, but debates are impossible as if you "argue" an alternate view, people get pissed off, hate you, and label you as intolerant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ExtraSlow View Post
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    I mean, there were cream puffs back when we were kids too. Percentage has changed a bit I'm sure, and the world is easier for them to thrive in as well.
    I teach kids Judo and I see more and more cream puffs haha, they usually quit halfway through the year.

    It’s mostly Canadian kids. All the Eastern European families and kids are badass and put the Canadian kids to shame, literally night and day difference in mental and physical strength.

    I have had Canadian families come from karate or taeKwon classes expecting their kids to excel in Judo only to fail miserably.

    When they realized their kids couldn’t achieve a belt in less than a years time they gave up, so sad.
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    If your kids claim to have never experienced bullying. They were probably the bully.

    Food for thought.
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    I get that bullying is bad...but isnt this kind of just a human nature type thing? Is there a realistic way to actually get humans to stop bullying each other?

    I see adults “bullying” each other all the time in corporate settings and corporations call them go-getters or willing to speak up.

    Cancel culture is all about bullying people a certain group doesn’t like.

    BLM bully’s anyone who has an opposing view point to theirs.

    Anti-maskers are bullying maskers and maskers are bullying anti-maskers.

    Quebec and Ontario bully Alberta and...well Alberta just takes it.

    You could name 1000s of examples of bullying in any setting with adults so how do you expect kids to act better then adults?Humans seem to just bully/offend each other in all settings so how do you expect kids to act any different. People like have power over others and for youth that unfortunately leads to bullying...not saying it is right, it is just the way it is, always has been, and likely always will be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by killramos View Post
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    If your kids claim to have never experienced bullying. They were probably the bully.

    Food for thought.
    Shut the fuck up sillramos!

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    RAPEEEEEe
    Originally posted by Thales of Miletus

    If you think I have been trying to present myself as intellectually superior, then you truly are a dimwit.
    Originally posted by Toma
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    Quote Originally Posted by ExtraSlow View Post
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    I mean, there were cream puffs back when we were kids too. Percentage has changed a bit I'm sure, and the world is easier for them to thrive in as well.
    Can confirm, am cream puff.
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    Meh, they all look like Jackie Chan to me
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    Quote Originally Posted by ExtraSlow View Post
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    Sort of off topic, but there are kids being raised now that have no idea how to take criticism. One of my nieces quit her fast food job after some of what I consider very gentle coaching.
    This is why I love being a coach for young athletes. Sports is life and you end up influencing them in many ways so they know how to take criticism well both on and off the court.

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    Quote Originally Posted by schurchill39 View Post
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    Can confirm, am cream puff.
    I am absolutely a cream puff, and have been my whole life. reasonably resilient, but doesn't mean my feelings aren't hurt when people give me gentle advice. All the feels. Although, I always find people who pretend to have no feelings or "act strong" actually get most offended and have the hardest time moving on from perceived slights. Pretending to have no emotions mean you never learned to process them.

    Are we far enough off topic yet?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ExtraSlow View Post
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    I am absolutely a cream puff, and have been my whole life. reasonably resilient, but doesn't mean my feelings aren't hurt when people give me gentle advice. All the feels. Although, I always find people who pretend to have no feelings or "act strong" actually get most offended and have the hardest time moving on from perceived slights. Pretending to have no emotions mean you never learned to process them.

    Are we far enough off topic yet?
    Get this guy a fuckin Puppers...

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