Is there any proof whatsoever that the Ukrainian elite are stealing aid to afford such things? Or is this just another narrative constructed by Russian sympathizers to make Western citizens think twice about giving aid, propagated by those who have an agenda but little ability or interest in fact checking?
Or, is it that you expect all the elites to sell off everything they have to fund the war effort? That certainly wouldn't happen if America was attacked, nor would it happen damn near anywhere.