Long story short: I sold some wheels in the marketplace here on beyond about a year ago and it was convenient to let a moderator to collect the money on my behalf. I didn't give it much thought because I assumed the moderators on a reputable site like beyond would live up to certain minimum standards.
I've been trying to square up with said moderator ever since. Several times we have agreed on a time and place to meet and I show up only to find that the moderator is a no show. Common courtesy would be to let a person know so that they don't take time out of their day for nothing. This never happens though. Excuses and apologies are made every time about why they couldn't make it (I have a lot of PM history to back this all up). It's been a vicious cycle for the last 12 months.
Lately I'm getting the feeling that this moderator is ducking me. It's getting pretty frustrating - I can't get through via phone anymore (even after I leave messages or let them know in advance when to be expecting my call) and I don't get replies to my PMs anymore even though I can see that they post regularly on Beyond.
I'm trying to approach this situation with some tact and I'm not going to name names right away. But I don't want to let something like this slide and then watch it happen to someone else.