Originally Posted by
tirebob
Yeah, for sure the yo-yo effect is my biggest worry, but my goal is to change my lifestyle and not simply diet with a weight goal in mind. I am not doing this for any sort of personal appearance reason. I simply want to feel good and be healthy for my wife and kids as much as for myself. For the first time in my life I felt like I was actually dying and on my way to the grave rather than living and thinking about the future and it honestly scared the shit out of me. It took all of 2 seconds seeing that number on the scale to short circuit and make a commitment to changing.
I have had a couple minor cheat meals, but even my cheat meals I am trying to be smart about it. Had a burger when I took my kid out for lunch but got a salad instead of fries and drank water instead of a beer or pop. I also am intentionally scaling back from my normal eating a bit for two days after I had a little bit of a cheat making sure that I am super clean (homemade healthy soup and salad for example).
My goal is simply to make the best possible eating choices I can, and eat well often enough that those times when I am at my mom's for thanksgiving dinner, I don't have to sweat eating a piece her ridiculous coconut cake! lol! That said this TG when I did eat some, I wasn't even halfway through a small piece when I felt like I had enough and the sugar got to be overpowering.
Great job tirebob!
I think you hit the nail on the head of how to be successful with this, it's lifestyle changes.
As soon as it's viewed as a diet, your perception changes towards a results only mindset which makes it hard (IMO) to keep with it. When telling my family members about it the first thing they ask is "Is it a 6-12 week program?" Well no, there's no real end in sight really as I'm changing the life style of how I view eating completely.
I have cheat days also and I'm not dead set on a strict meal time and macro/calorie target every day, but (as you mentioned above) paying a little extra attention the next few days after a cheat day helps ensure you don't fall back into previous habits.
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