Speed is the name of the game.
Speed is the name of the game.
Or read the book "How to win friends and influence people".This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
It's actually quite good if you give a shit, like in your relationship.
And my old work made me go take the course in person lol!!
Another excellent one was
"The Anatomy of Human Destructiveness" by Erich Fromm
Lol. Should be mandatory reading before joining the online world.
MAGA = My Ass Got Arrested.
Beware the passive aggressive Mean Girls. Vengie, Killramos, Penismightier, buster, jrscoolude, etc who bully others into their circle jerk opinion, serially negging you, while claiming they ignore you and don't obsess over you.
PSA. High school is not a popularity contest little girls
Employer made Toma go to a 'how to make friends and get people to listen to you' course. Ironic.
Don't think it worked.
Dale Carnegie good stuff I should read it again.
Healthy conversations cantered around respect for each other, find the common ground and hearing each other out. Timing, tone and turf.
I am user #49Originally posted by rage2
Shit, there's only 49 users here, I doubt we'll even break 100
Saw OP out getting groceries today.
Originally posted by SJW
Once again another useless post by JRSCOOLDUDE.
Originally posted by snowcat
Don't let the e-thugs and faggots get to you when they quote your posts and write stupid shit.^^ Fact CheckedOriginally posted by JRSC00LUDE
I say stupid shit all the time.
OP may want to consider the benefits of not debating with thier wife and girlfriend.
Sometimes, you just don't need it.
I've been in enough long term relationships to know that even when you're right, it's best if you can contain your own ego and let her do her.
Not saying I'm good at practicing it though...
If hes a Trumper or freedumber, it's a way of life for him. His wife will leave him when he joins a militia to "protect our democracy." LolThis quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
All the while he will be wondering "why is everyone else so blind?!?!"
MAGA = My Ass Got Arrested.
Beware the passive aggressive Mean Girls. Vengie, Killramos, Penismightier, buster, jrscoolude, etc who bully others into their circle jerk opinion, serially negging you, while claiming they ignore you and don't obsess over you.
PSA. High school is not a popularity contest little girls
Best case scenario is both parties can realize is its ok to agree to disagree. Unless something directly effects your morals or crosses that line most debates are a waste of time and you end up arguing over the same dumb stuff all the time.
With that being said I'm super grateful my wife uses logic and is not an extremist.
I have previously gone on dates with women where political views which I did not bring up made my ears bleed.
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Well at least you can go home after knowing you have a sensible wife to chat with.This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
Need to know if separate bank accounts before decision is given...
So what about when its regarding parenting issues where there isn't a common ground. Such as, "Do we do something about the teenager not doing his chores?". I want to ground him into the dark ages but i would settle with mild form of manual labour where her counter argument is, "No"This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
Ground your wife into the dark ages as well until she gets the point.This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
Parenting strategy is one of the few areas where you must find a combined and consistent way forward. Not saying you both need to agree, but you need to agree on a path.
No form of discipline works if both parents aren't onboard.
OP mentioned social issues. So it can't parenting; which I agree needs to be a united front.
Need details/context if its just petty BS or actual moral issues.
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Probably deserves it's own thread, but with parenting disagreements, I find it helpful to think about the fact that children will always test limits to find out what things they can control in their environment.
With kids of any age, responsibilities are what gives rise to privileges. If there are chores, they need to be done or there are normal consequences. Not "punishments", which are the wrong way to think of things, just something as close to "natural consequences" as possible.
And sometimes with kids, you need to give them some empathy if there are temporary issues.
My neighbor once told his kids to behave or he'd sell them to the hutterites. I think that's a good strategy because it installs fear of the parents and the reality of consequences, and a mistrust of groups of people with different belief systems.
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"Expand this anecdote into a novel".
I can eat more hot wings than you.