Problem is the ball was in their court. I already paid and gave them a 5 star rating, as i didnt put them on right away, i just had a look and didnt notice the bigger hole. So, because paypal plays mediator, you have to play by paypals rules. I had to ship them out, and give paypal the tracking information. When they recieve the product back, they tell paypal who gives me my money. I thought about C.O.D, but it shows in paypals rules that i am responsible for paying postage to get it back.
Fucking stupid but ah well, you win some you lose some.