The new rules for dividends specifically targets dividends to spouses and children. I'll have to dig it up, read about it a couple weeks ago.
edit - here's an article talking about the rule changes.
http://business.financialpost.com/pe...-your-business
Your battle is to prove the involvement of family members within your business, and if you've ever dealt with CRA, it's a pretty arbitrary process. If you lose, you lose the $2-3k in savings, plus penalties, plus interest.
End of the day, talk to your accountant. I'm not a tax professional, just know the gist of the changes and
what battles not to pick with CRA.